October 15, 2004

Number 51

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By Karen E. Klein
There's nothing like the luxury of time when you're facing a big decision or a life transition. You need time to sort through the pros and cons, time to sit with the possibilities and time to contemplate your choices.

And yet, time (along with a good night's sleep) has to be one of the scarcest commodities for parents of young children.

This lack of personal time goes for men as well as women. Dads spend most of their waking hours on the job and on weekends they are called upon to coach sports, do chores and participate in family outings. Moms also tend to work full-time and, studies continue to show, they complete the lion's share of the housework on a daily basis (ahem ... ). Even if they're not working full-time, mothers will tell you that there's no "boss" as demanding of one's absolute attention and energy as an infant or toddler.

I think that the shortage of contemplative time, combined with the stress of making a major life decision, can be a real source of anxiety and a major confidence-killer. That's why my already-stellar opinion of our Orange Cat sales rep, Valerie, went up even a notch further recently when she told me that she was taking a weekend for herself.

Any parent will tell you that this concept is not easy to accomplish, mainly because of the guilt involved. Aren't you a lousy parent if you leave your family for "no good reason"? Isn't it terribly selfish to spend the money on yourself when there are so many things your family needs? How will you explain this "lapse in judgment" to your spouse/mother-in-law/friends?

Yet Valerie, sensible, strong woman that she is, managed to overcome all those barriers in order to spend a weekend alone in Lake Havasu. With one job phasing out (not her Orange Cat job, thankfully) and another kicking in, she knew she was facing a major life transition. "I was feeling overwhelmed with the insecurity of not knowing what was ahead. I was going from a job away from home to a job based at home and I didn't know whether I would do well or enjoy it," she explained.

The upcoming change added major anxiety to Valerie's life and she knew she was taking out that anxiety on her husband and young daughter. When she heard that a relative had won a timeshare weekend at a fundraiser but couldn't use it, she seized on it in the hope that some time alone would help her clarify how she would handle the job transition.

"I took two nights and three days by myself," she said. At first, her husband was not happy about the idea. "He was very concerned about my safety," she said. Reassuring him took some doing, but reminding him that she's a naturally cautious person seemed to ease his worries, she said.

At Lake Havasu, Valerie didn't follow a set agenda. "I deliberately left it open-ended," she said. "I bought food so I could stay in and do whatever I felt like - reading, watching TV, being quiet, listening to music." She also spent a lot of time praying and felt that "having the time to do that in solitude" was a true luxury.

Along with relaxing, she said, she also savored small freedoms - things like going out to eat whenever and wherever she wanted to, instead of accommodating somebody else's schedule and preferences. "I started to remember the `old me.' The 20-year-old who could tackle the world and do anything she wanted to," Valerie said.

Over the weekend, she started to notice that she became more and more comfortable doing things by herself. "You don't realize it, but you become accustomed to always going out with your husband or kids. At first I felt really insecure doing things alone. But gradually I started to feel more confident doing things like going out to dinner, sitting on the beach and watching the boats go by and going to a movie. Knowing that I could do these things made me feel really powerful, like I could take on whatever comes my way," she said.

On her final evening at the timeshare, Valerie had planned to go out for a nice dinner. For a split second, she hesitated. Would she feel awkward sitting alone in a fancy restaurant? Wouldn't it be easier to order takeout and stay inside by herself? "I forced myself to go along with the dinner I had planned," she recalled. "When I got there, I realized nobody was looking at me oddly. During that meal, I felt very positive and started to make a list of things I needed to do to accommodate the changes in my life. I sat right there at the table with a pen, writing down the plans that were coming into my head."

Getting back home to her family was "fabulous," Valerie said, and neither she nor her family regrets the time she spent away.

Her story reminded me of a book I read a few years ago by Joan Anderson called "A Year by the Sea." Although she was at a different transition in her life - finding herself facing an empty nest - Anderson details many of the same results that Valerie found after she deliberately spent contemplative time alone. I recommend the book and the process.

Do you realize that by the time The Orange Cat graces your inbox again, the 2004 election will be just days away? In fact, the deadline for voter registration is already just days away - Oct. 18. I occasionally run into people who do not vote and I'm always saddened by their choice. In my view, our right to vote is one of our most precious rights; one that so many other people around the globe do not have. So, I will urge you to register immediately (if you haven't) and then exercise your precious right on Nov. 2.

Here are some nonpartisan links that should help you (or a new voter in your house), courtesy of the Arcadia Public Library:

The Easy Voter Guide is now available as a .PDF file online.

The California Secretary of State's office has information of the ballot measures, results from previous elections and an online voter registration form.

Project Vote Smart has information on candidates and issues.

There's nothing like doing your civic duty, unless it's doing your duty and also involving your kids! Orange Cat reader (and brave woman) Courtenay wrote to let us know about the watershed restoration day that is sponsored twice a year by the local water district and the U.S. Forest Service. The objective: In the aftermath of fires and natural erosion, the local mountain slopes need to be replanted, and volunteers are one of the most efficient ways to accomplish the task.

Courtenay took her two preschoolers (ages 2 and 3 1/2 at the time) to help with last spring's event. "At the meeting place, we transplanted little saplings into bigger containers, then drove up to a higher location and planted 3-year-old trees (they provided the shovels)," Courtney said. "My two were covered with dirt, but they had the best time learning about trees, the forest and how important trees are to water. I recommend it highly." Check out our calendar for two upcoming volunteer days on Oct. 16 and Nov. 13, from 8 a.m. to 2 p.m.

What would we do here without the Orange Cat readers? My unofficial correspondents are always scrounging up good ideas and events for San Gabriel Valley moms and dads. Here's a suggestion from Orange Cat grandma Fran for a fun family day: Pack the kids up sometime this fall and make the hour-plus trip to Fillmore to ride the Fillmore & Western Railway Company's train, The Flyer. The folks who run the train plan all kinds of short, special-themed trips, including the Pumpkinliner, which is running in October and includes a trip to a pumpkin patch to do some jack-o-lantern picking. Closer to the holidays, they have a Christmas Tree Holiday train that includes a trip to a farm where you can cut your own Christmas tree and a North Pole Express that features a visit with Santa. Sounds like a delight, especially for little ones who are train crazy.

Another reader, Suzanne, is looking for a chess club or class for her young kids who would like to learn the basics and get practice by playing more experienced players. Anybody know of some local chess lovers who would offer time to children who want to learn the game? Let me know and I'll pass it on.

Here's an idea that you could pass on for us. The Orange Cat would love to help out your local PTA, Scout troop, club or other children's organization by offering a simple fundraiser. Basically, you sign up new subscribers for us (with their permission, please) and we'll pay your nonprofit organization a small fee for each new subscription. (And, of course, they won't get junk mail, just The Orange Cat.) Sound easy? It is. If you're interested, let me know and we'll help you set it up. I'm at karen@theorangecat.org and I'll talk to you again next time!

Dates and times subject to change; activities free unless noted; phone numbers provided if reservations are requested; please note age ranges on some activities. Also, see special printable [coupons] exclusively for readers of The Orange Cat.

Friday, Oct. 15, 2004

Teen Poetry Workshop: Monrovia Public Library 4:30 to 6:30 p.m. Experts teach you how to write and publish your own poetry. 321 S. Myrtle Ave., Monrovia.

Saturday, Oct. 16, 2004

Author Event: Vroman's Bookstore 10:30 a.m. Gris Grimly reads and signs "Boris and Bella," a new Halloween story for ages 2 through 6. 695 E. Colorado Blvd., Pasadena.

Fiesta: St. Elizabeth of Hungary Church 11 a.m. to 10 p.m. Carnival rides, games, a watermelon-eating contest and other picnic games, huge bake sale, food, bingo and poker, live music and a BBQ dinner are featured at church festival. Also on Sunday, Oct. 17, 1 to 8 p.m. Information: 626-345-1323. 1879 N. Lake Ave., Altadena.

All Natural Ingredients: Norton Simon Museum 2-3 p.m. For this family day, children and families take a guided tour of the collections, exploring what nature provides to artists, from insect-based colors to animal-hair brushes. Free with museum admission of $6 adults; under 18 free. Information: 626-449-6840. 411West Colorado Blvd., Pasadena.

The Gruffalo: Saturday Series for Kids 1:30 p.m. and 3:30 p.m. Join Mouse on an adventurous journey through the deep dark woods in this magical adaptation of the award-winning picture book by Julia Donaldson and Axel Scheffler. Mouse can scare hungry animals away with tall stories of the terrifying Gruffalo, but what happens when he comes face-to-face with the very creature he imagined? This play series is designed especially to introduce young children to theater. $6. Haugh Performing Arts Center, Citrus College, 1000 W. Foothill Blvd., Glendora.

Andean Music: CalTech 8 p.m. For over three decades, Inti-Illimani's music has intoxicated audiences around the globe. Wedded in traditional Latin American roots and played on more than 30 wind, string and percussion instruments, Inti-Illimani's compositions are a treasure for the human spirit. Adults: $29, $25, $21; $10 youth. Beckman Auditorium, 332 S. Michigan Ave., Pasadena.

Saturday Craft: Lakeshore Learning Store 11 a.m. to 3 p.m. Little ones create their own personalized key chains out of yarn and a variety of beads. They can even spell out their names or initials. Ages 3 and up. 3848 E. Foothill Blvd., Pasadena.

Puzzlemania: Pasadena Central Library 1-5 p.m. Jigsaw puzzles take brains and concentration. Join us on the Teen Patio for a puzzling afternoon. We’ll be putting together several puzzles. How many puzzles can we put together in four hours? Come help us find out! 285 E. Walnut St., Pasadena.

Young Readers Club: Pasadena Central Library 2 p.m. Book discussion group for ages 9 to 11 reads and chats about "The Witches," by Roald Dahl. Story room, 285 E. Walnut St., Pasadena.

Latino HIstory Parade: Latino Heritage Assn. 11 a.m. to 5:30 p.m. Aztec dancers, bands, folklorico music, free arts and crafts workshops, health and information booths are featured at this Latino heritage event. Parade noon to 1 p.m. Come experience living history exhibits dating back to 1890. Information: 626-683-0599. Washington Park, Washington and Los Robles, Pasadena.

Bailey Canyon Clean Up: Bailey Canyon Park 8 a.m. Volunteers needed for annual fall park cleanup. Help trim bushes, clean pathways and remove debris to keep the park in good shape. Bring garden tools and gloves if possible; extras will be available. Refreshments and potluck lunch will be served. Information: Midge Morash, 626-355-7606. Grove Street at Grandview Avenue, Sierra Madre.

Watershed Restoration: Upper SG Valley Municipal Water District 8 a.m. to 2 p.m. Volunteer to plant saplings, gather seeds and help with other watershed restoration efforts. All ages welcome; children must be supervised by adults. Bring lunch, water, work gloves and garden tools. Information: 626-335-1251 or 626-443-2298. San Gabriel Canyon Environmental Ed Center, Hwy 39 at Rincon Fire Station. Azusa.

Author Event: Mrs. Nelson's Toy & Book Store 5-7 p.m. Author and illustrator Jan Brett gives a presentation and signs her new book, "The Umbrella." Join us for games, crafts and story reading in celebration of Ms. Brett's work. Only books purchased for this event at Mrs. Nelson's will be signed; tickets for book signing will be distributed beginning at 9 a.m. on day of the event. Limited amount of tickets available. Guests do not need a ticket to attend or participate in the presentation. 1030 Bonita Ave., La Verne.

Monday, Oct. 18, 2004

Homeschool Presentation: Hastings Branch Library 2 p.m. Find the latest and best in homeschool resources and a knowledgeable staff to answer any of your questions. 3325 E. Orange Grove Blvd., Pasadena.

Teen Center Grand Opening: Lamanda Park Branch Library 3-6 p.m. Join us as we open our new teen center and welcome comic book artist Javier Hernandez to tell us about his new series, "El Muerto, the Aztec Zombie." Shawn Thrasher, young adult librarian, will discuss great books and share information about the new teen programs. Animé screening follows from 6 to 8 p.m. Light refreshments will be served. 140 S. Altadena Dr., Pasadena.

Tuesday, Oct. 19, 2004

Family Library Night: Lamanda Park Branch Library 6 p.m. In conjunction with Day One and Wilson Middle School, there will be a family storytime, free parent brochures, bookmarks, booklists, library cards, pencils and PUSD handouts. Light refreshments will be served. 140 S. Altadena Dr., Pasadena.

Wednesday, Oct. 20, 2004

Author Event: Mrs. Nelson's Toy & Book Shop 10 to 11:30 a.m. Author Kathleen Krull appears to celebrate and sign her new book, "A Woman For President." Teachers, we have room available for classes grades 3 to 6 to attend this program. 1030 Bonita Ave., La Verne.

Thursday, Oct. 21, 2004

Candy, Pumpkins, & Black Cats: Arcadia Public Library 7-8 p.m. Join us for a not-so-scary evening of stories and activities celebrating Halloween! No registration required; supplies limited to first 50 participants. Cay Mortenson Auditorium, 20 W. Duarte Rd., Arcadia.

Animé Review: Pasadena Central Library 12:30 to 2 p.m. Calling all teen lovers of Japanese animation! We’ll be showing movies and episodes from popular television shows and reviewing them. Donald R. Wright Auditorium, 285 E. Walnut St., Pasadena.

Author Event: Mrs. Nelson's Toy & Book Store 10 to 11:30 a.m. Illustrator of "The Halloween Queen," Theresa Smythe uses paper collage art to bring to life the rhyming tale of a scary neighbor who happens to have the best candy on the block. Ms. Smythe will give a presentation followed by a signing. Teachers, you can bring your class, grades K to 3, to this program for a field trip. 1030 Bonita Ave., La Verne.

Friday, Oct. 22, 2004

Author Event: Mrs. Nelson's Toy & Book Store 3:30 to 6 p.m. Jane Zalben, author and illustrator of more than 50 books for children, presents her new book "Saturday Night at the Beastro." Join us for games, crafts and strange party snacks! All ages welcome; call 909-599-4558 to register. 1030 Bonita Ave., La Verne.

String Band: Paseo Colorado 6-9 p.m. The Moreton Bay String Band performs near the fountain in the center courtyard. Some seating provided, lawn chairs helpful for latecomers. Music featured: bluegrass, Celtic, traditional, gospel and hymns and classical pieces with a twist. 280 E. Colorado Blvd., Pasadena.

Saturday, Oct. 23, 2004

Family Pumpkin Round-Up: Descanso Gardens 10 a.m. to 4 p.m. Hayrides, country fair animals, scarecrows and a plethora of pumpkins make up this quaint country fair. Pumpkin parades for kids in their Halloween costumes will be held at 10 and 11 a.m. Crafts, pumpkin carving and games all day; animals, decorating contests and hay rides afternoons only. Also Sunday, Oct. 24. Admission: $7 adults; $5 ages 13 to 18; $2 ages 5 to 12; children 5 and younger free. Information: 818-949-4200. 1418 Descanso Dr., La Canada Flintridge.

10th Annual Pumpkin Festival: Kidspace Children's Museum 10 a.m. to 6 p.m. A safe and fun Halloween-inspired carnival for children, families and friends. The festival will feature rides, games, crafts, children's costume contests, food and live performances by local performers and groups. Admission free; tickets sold onsite for specific activities. Also Sunday, Oct. 24., 10 a.m. to 5 p.m. Brookside Park, 480 N. Arroyo Blvd., Pasadena.

Fun Fall Festival: Terrific Twosome Mothers of Multiples Club 11 a.m. to 2 p.m. Local chapter of twins/multiples club holds its kickoff for fall. Food, games and live entertainment are provided for more than 100 families with twins, triplets and even quadruplets. Some will be dressed in "dynamic duo style" Halloween costumes. Information: email Andrea Davis at andreadavis@ix.netcom.com or events@ttmom.org. Tournament Park, Wilson Avenue at Cornell Road, Pasadena.

Gourd Fair L.A.: Los Angeles County Arboretum 9 a.m. to 5 p.m. Musical performances, artists and craft classes all celebrate the historical, cultural and contemporary uses of hard-shelled gourds. Also Oct. 24. Free with admission of $7 adults, $2.50 kids ages 5 to 12, under five free. The Arboretum, 301 N. Baldwin Ave., Arcadia.

Saturday Craft: Lakeshore Learning Store 11 a.m. to 3 p.m. Children create a scarecrow puppet using sticks, buttons, wiggly eyes & colorful hair. Ages 3 and up. 3848 E. Foothill Blvd., Pasadena.

Parenting Seminar: First Lutheran Church of Temple City 9 a.m. to noon. "Media Madness: Children and Television" is a seminar teaching parents how to "tame the media monster." Dr. Patricia Hoffman, professor of Family Studies at Concordia University, will examine current children’s programming and explore the positive and negative influences of TV. $7 includes refreshments and childcare. Information: 626-287-0968. Parish Hall, 9123 E. Broadway Ave., Temple City.

Chess Club: Pasadena Central Library 3 p.m. Do you love to play chess? Want to pick up some chess tips? Never played chess before, but want to learn how? This is a perfect place to start learning; pair up and play with other first timers. Snacks and drinks will be served. Teen Central, 285 E. Walnut St., Pasadena.

Buffy the Vampire Slayer: Pasadena Central Library 12:30 to 2 p.m. She is tough. She is the ultimate symbol of the battle between the horror world and our own. We’ll be celebrating Buffy at the library and giving away prizes too. Donald R. Wright Auditorium, 285 E. Walnut St., Pasadena.

Sunday, Oct. 24, 2004

Fall Feast & Fun Almansor Center/AYSO Region 214 Noon to 5 p.m. Community event includes soccer activities for kids with The Los Angeles Galaxy, fast and furious eating contests, face-painting, pony rides, music and great food for everyone. $10 adults; kids eight and under free with adult. Information 818-787-8742 or email FeastandFun@aol.com. 1955 Fremont Ave., South Pasadena. [Coupon]

Hike to the Falls: Eaton Canyon Nature Center 9 a.m. to noon. Geared toward anyone comfortable hiking 3.5 miles at a moderate pace. Must be able to cross water, boulder hop and possibly get wet. Bring sturdy shoes, sunscreen, water and a hat. Information: 626-398-5420. 1750 N. Altadena Dr., Pasadena.

Holiday Preview: Lucky Paperie 1-5 p.m. New letterpress invitation and stationery boutique hosts holiday open house event to benefit Junior League of Pasadena's "Girl's Rock!" program. Preview holiday custom cards, ready-made holiday cards, gifts, wrap and enjoy light refreshments. 985 E. Green St., Pasadena.

Monday, Oct. 25, 2004

Spooky Spooky Stories: Hastings Branch Library 7 p.m. Are you ready to be spooked? You are invited to wear your spookiest costume and enjoy the wonderfully spooky stories of renowned storyteller Michael McCarty. You can also take part in a spooky costume parade and enjoy a ghastly good snack. 3325 E. Orange Grove Blvd., Pasadena.

Halloween Spooky Time: San Rafael Branch Library 3:30 p.m. Fun and scary stories, snacks and a trick-or-treat bag you can make. Wear your costume to our annual Halloween Preschool Spooky Time! 1240 Nithsdale Rd., Pasadena.

Tuesday, Oct. 26, 2004

Halloween Madness: Santa Catalina Branch Library 3 p.m. Come if you dare to enter the haunting Santa Catalina Library! Beware of scary books riddles and treats! Plus a screaming show to entertain your bones. All ages. 999 E. Washington Blvd., Pasadena.

Wednesday, Oct. 27, 2004

Author Event: Mrs. Nelson's Toy & Book Shop 10 to 11:30 a.m. Lee Wardlaw, author of "101 Ways to Bug Your Teacher" will be coming to Mrs. Nelson's. Join us for a program and signing. Classes grades 3 to 6 are invited to attend this event as a field trip. 1030 Bonita Ave., La Verne.

Thursday, Oct. 28, 2004

Ronald McDonald Show: Monrovia Public Library 3:30 p.m. Come meet the famous clown. Featuring juggling, music, magic, comedy and more! All ages welcome. 321 S. Myrtle Ave., Monrovia.

Little Chamber of Botanical Horrors: The Huntington Library 4 p.m. to 5:30 p.m. Pitcher plants that drown their dinner, carnivores that gobble up flies, flowers that smell like rotting garbage: these are just a few of the weird denizens of the plant world that will be unveiled in a presentation suitable for ages 6 and up. $5 per person. Also Friday, Oct. 29. Tickets: 626-405-2128. 1151 Oxford Rd., San Marino.

Not-So-Spooky Stories: Allendale Branch Library 10:30 a.m. Dress up in your Halloween costume and join us for a very special storytime. Tasty treats will be served. 1130 S. Marengo Ave., Pasadena.

Pumpkin Decorating Party: Allendale Branch Library 3:30 p.m. Elementary school children are welcome to visit the library as we decorate mini-pumpkins in preparation for Halloween. Special treats will be provided, so join us if you dare. 1130 S. Marengo Ave., Pasadena.

Halloween Special: Linda Vista Branch Library 3:30 p.m. Which witch? The Linda Vista witch! She’s back to say "Boo" to you and read a spooky story. Suitable for school-aged children. 1281 Bryant St., Pasadena.

Friday, Oct. 29, 2004

Kids Halloween Party: Jungle Gym Rock Climbing 3:30 to 6:30 p.m. Three hours of climbing with our staff, costume contest, pumpkin carving and lots of fun! All ages welcome. $20 in advance; $25 at the door. Information: 626-446-5014. 305 N. Santa Anita Blvd., Arcadia.

The Passing Zone: Caltech 8-10 p.m. Owen Morse and Jon Wee have done the impossible: They've made juggling hip, and funny. Really funny. And now ... they juggle people! Admission: $25, $21, $17 adults, youth $10. Information: 626-395-4652. Beckman Auditorium, 332 S. Michigan Ave., Pasadena.

Dia de los Muertos: El Centro de Accion Social 6-9 p.m. Traditional celebration marks Mexico's "Day of the Dead." Madison Elementary School, 515 Ashtabula St., Pasadena.

Saturday, Oct. 30, 2004

Halloween Party Vroman's Bookstore 10:30 a.m. Our traditional Halloween celebration of treats and a costume parade will include face painting and trick or treating. Come dressed up in your Halloween best! 695 E. Colorado Blvd., Pasadena.

Spooktacular Special: Monrovia Public Library 11 a.m. and 2 p.m. A Halloween program featuring one hour of holiday stories, songs, crafts, film and refreshments. Costumes are welcome. For all ages. 321 S. Myrtle Ave., Monrovia.

Family Re-Photography Day: Pasadena Museum of California Art 3-5 p.m. Two local photographers lead families through the neighborhood around the museum, re-photographing sites based on historic photographs. Participants receive copies of historic photographs; $10 per family. Information: 626-568-3665. 490 E. Union St., Pasadena.

Walking with Dinosaurs: Caltech 2-3 p.m. The Cinemuse high-definition film "Walking with Dinosaurs" is the world's first natural history of dinosaurs. A post-screening discussion will be led by Donald Prothero, Professor of Geology at Occidental College, and lecturer at Caltech. $5. For ages 6 and up. Information: 626-395-4652. Beckman Auditorium, 332 S. Michigan Ave., Pasadena.

Halloween Book Signing: The Huntington Library 2:30 p.m. Children's book illustrator Gris Grimly will read and sign copies of his latest book, "Boris and Bella," by author Carolyn Crimi. The book tells of a messy monster and a persnickety ghoul who get together at a Halloween bash in Booville. Adding to the creepy-crawly fun, some live snakes, spiders and insects from Wildlife on Wheels will make a special appearance. Friends Hall, 1151 Oxford Rd., San Marino.

Saturday Craft: Lakeshore Learning Store 11 a.m. to 3 p.m. Kids will love trick-or-treating with colorful goodie bags that they decorate themselves. Ages 3 and up. 3848 E. Foothill Blvd., Pasadena.

"The Hundred Dresses": Haugh Performing Arts Center 2 p.m. A young immigrant girl is teased at school because she wears the same dress every day. Play is based on the classic story by Eleanor Estes. $5. Tickets and information: 626-963-9411. Citrus College Little Theatre, 1000 W. Foothill Blvd., Glendora.

Trick or Treat Tales: Pasadena Central Library 10 a.m. Wear your costume, if you want, and listen to Halloween stories at this special family storytime. Story Room, 285 E. Walnut St., Pasadena.

Old Fashioned Halloween Party: Lamanda Park Branch Library 2 p.m. Dress in your costume and attend our party! Listen to Halloween tales, enjoy fun games and delight in delicious Halloween treats. 140 S. Altadena Dr., Pasadena.

Pumpkins & Potions in the Park: City of Monrovia 2-6 p.m. Annual carnival and costume contest celebrate the holiday. Costume contest for ages 12 and under at 2 p.m., carnival for 14 and under runs through 5 p.m. Trick-or-treating at the Myrtle Avenue shops, 3-6 p.m. Library Park, 321 S. Myrtle Ave., Monrovia.

Register Early

Barks and Books: Pasadena Humane Society Be a special reading buddy to a real live dog! Elementary school-aged children can read a book about dogs to a gentle dog. This program is held several times a month; check website for times and reservations. Various Pasdena branch libraries.

A Night with Poe & Gorey: The Huntington Library Discover the scary side of the classics, during an evening inspired by the works of Edgar Allan Poe and Edward Gorey to be held Oct. 23 from 7 to 10 p.m. Costumed characters will reenact chilling scenes by candelight, guaranteeing plenty of fun and thrills. Ages 10 and up. Adults $18, children $12. Registration mandatory: 626-405-2128. 1151 Oxford Rd., San Marino.

The Nutcracker: Luckman Fine Arts Complex Ballet Internationale-Indianapolis performs holiday classic over Thanksgiving weekend, Nov. 26 - 27, at evening and matinee times. $65, $55, $50. Box office: 323-343-6600. California State University, Los Angeles.

Family Nature Walk: Children's Nature Institute Nature walk specifically designed for families with young children will be held at 10 a.m. Sunday, Nov. 14. Hike led by Alison Morgan. Registration mandatory; limited spaces fill up fast: 310-998-1151. Eaton Canyon, 1750 N. Altadena Dr., Pasadena.

Franken Friday: Alhambra Public Library The haunted hour is approaching: Friday, Oct. 22 from 3:30 to 5:30 p.m. Teenagers will have an opportunity to get together to discuss Mary Shelley's "Frankenstein" and watch the film. Creepy cuisine provided. Attendance limited; reservations mandatory: 626-570-3251, ext. 5622. 410 W. Main St., Alhambra.

Family Adventures: L.A. County Arboretum Afternoon nature program for the entire family is held on the first Saturday of every month at 2 p.m. A short story or talk, a walk and take-home nature craft are included. $20 per family. Nov. 6: Leaf art. Registration: 626-821-4623. 301 N. Baldwin Ave., Arcadia.

Family Nature Walk: Children's Nature Institute Nature walk specifically designed for families with young children will be held at 10 a.m. Thursday, Dec. 16. Event led by family team Debbie Hill and Dorthea. Registration mandatory; limited spaces fill up fast: 310-998-1151. Eaton Canyon, 1750 N. Altadena Dr., Pasadena.

Career and College Day: Pasadena City College 8:30 a.m. to 3:30 p.m. Fourth biannual "Get a Life in the Arts" day, Nov. 6, is specifically designed for high school students interested in careers in the arts. Includes panel discussions with professional artists and designers; Q&A with college art students, a college fair, portfolio reviews and financial aid consulting. Seating limited, register early: email careerday@armoryarts.org or call 626-792-5101 x113. 1570 E. Colorado Blvd., Pasadena.

Family Storytimes: La Canada Flintridge Public Library Storytimes will be held at 4 p.m. on Oct. 27 and Nov. 10. Halloween and Day of the Dead is the October program; Snow White and the Seven Dwarfs is November focus. Space limited; reservations mandatory. Information: 818-790-3330. 4545 N. Oakwood Ave., La Canada Flintridge.

Storytime: Arcadia Public Library Storytimes for various age groups are designed to introduce reading to young children. Programs include short stories, flannel boards, fingerplays, videos, music and crafts. Registration, required for all groups, begins Oct. 30 at 10 a.m. for Arcadia residents; noon forward for general public. Baby Tales for 4 to 18 months is held Thursdays, 10:15 a.m. from Nov. 4 to Dec. 18. Time for Twos and Threes is held Tuesdays at 1 and 6:30 p.m. and Wednesdays at 10:15 and 11:15 a.m. from Nov. 2 through Dec. 15. Preschool Storytime is held Wednesdays at 1 and 6:30 p.m. from Nov. 3 through Dec. 15. 20 W. Duarte Rd., Arcadia.

Trick-or-Treat: Arcadia Public Library Join us for stories and activities, trick-or-treating through the library and light refreshments. Show us your cute, scary and funny costumes. Ages 10 and under. 7 p.m. on Oct. 27 and 28. Tickets required; free tickets will be available Oct. 23, 10 to 11 a.m. Arcadia residents only, 11 a.m. and on general public. Cay Mortenson Auditorium, 20 W. Duarte Rd., Arcadia.

Haunted Canyon Night Hikes: Monrovia Canyon Park Chills and screams prevail on this ranger-led hike of a dark and eerie canyon. Hike is .75 miles, full of jarring scares and takes 45 minutes to complete. Definitely not for the faint of heart. Held Oct. 28, 29 and 30, hikes leave every 30 minutes starting at 7 p.m. through 9:30 p.m. All ages welcome on 7 p.m. hike only, later hikes recommended for ages 11 and up. $5. Tickets available pre-sale only at Canyon Park or Monrovia City Hall; no walk-ins or drop-offs. Information and tickets: 626-256-8282. 1200 N. Canyon Blvd., Monrovia.

Continuing Activities

Montrose Harvest Market: Weekly farmer's market includes giant slide, obstacle course bouncer and 25-foot portable rock climbing wall. Sundays, 9 a.m. to 2 p.m. Information: 818-957-3809. Montrose Shopping Park, Honolulu Ave. and Ocean View Blvd, Montrose.

Monrovia Public Library "Time for Twos" is an introductory storytime for toddlers and their parents held Tuesdays and Fridays, 10:45 to 11:15 a.m. Activities include stories, songs, flannel tales and a small creative project. "Munchkin Storytime" is offered on Wednesdays and Thursdays, 10:45 to 11:30 a.m. for children 3-5. The half-hour program includes stories, songs, flannel tales and incentive stickers. 321 S. Myrtle Ave., Monrovia.

Sierra Madre Public Library: Two Preschool story hours are held each week in the Children's Room. Mondays at 10 a.m., and Wednesdays at 7 p.m. Cathy Ryne, children's librarian, tells stories, sings songs, and organizes craft projects. 626-355-7186. 440 W. Sierra Madre Blvd., Sierra Madre.

Excellence in Education Home school park day; bring lunch, toys, games, sports equipment. Mondays at noon. Eisenhower Park, Colorado Blvd at Second St., Arcadia..

Monrovia Reads: Hour-long story times include crafts, stories, songs and fingerplay. Ages 0-5 with parents or caretakers. Tuesdays 10 a.m., All Nations Church, 1948 S. Peck Road; Thursdays 10 a.m., Boys and Girls Club, 600 S. Shamrock Ave., Monrovia.

MOMS Club of Pasadena-North Support group for stay-at-home moms meets regularly for all-member meetings, speakers, interest groups, playdates and much more. Serving Pasadena (north of 210 fwy) and Altadena. For more information please e-mail: membershipnorth@pasadenamomsclub.com .

MOMS Club of LaVerne Support group meets regularly for play dates, park days, storytimes, coffees and field trips. Various locations; check online calendar for dates, times. Information: momsclublvsd@yahoo.com .

Jungle Gym Rock Climbing: Toddler and children's climbing classes, homeschool groups, competitive climbing and winter adventure camp offered at gym designed for kids 14 months to 14 years. Birthday parties and family nights also available. Information: 626-446-5014. 305 N. Santa Anita Blvd., Arcadia.

Adventuring Preschool Playgroup: We are moms of preschoolers in the San Gabriel Valley, exploring different free museums, parks and taking field trips together. We meet Tuesdays from 9:30 a.m. to 12:30 p.m. Call Michelle for information: 626-305-7636. .

Mt. San Antonio College International marketplace is held every Sunday from 8 a.m. to 3:30 p.m., featuring arts and crafts, antiques and certified farmer's market. Parking and admission is free. Stadium parking lot, off Temple Avenue, just west of Cal Poly.

Huntington Hospital: Perinatal Health Education department offers ongoing classes and support groups for new moms, including breastfeeding Thursdays 10 to 11:30 a.m.; Mommy & Me Tuesdays 9:30 to 11:30 a.m.; Postnatal Fitness Mondays, Wednesdays and Fridays, 5:45 to 6 p.m.; Baby & Me; infant care; and infant/child CPR. Some classes involve fees. Information and registration: 626-397-8768.

Monrovia Family Festival: 5 to 9 p.m. Fridays. Games, food, rides, shopping and farmer's market. Myrtle Ave south of Foothill Blvd, Monrovia.

MOMS Club of Covina & West Covina Support group meets reularly for playdates, walking groups, parties for stay-at-home moms or part-time working moms seeking day time activities for children of all ages. Serves mothers in Covina, West Covina, Azusa and Irwindale. New member meetings held at 10:30 a.m. on the last Tuesday of every month. Information: email JillVidal@hotmail.com Covina Library, 234 N. Second Ave., Covina.

Vroman's Book Store: 10 a.m. Wednesdays and Saturdays. Storytime with Mr. Steve features contemporary and classic tales read aloud. Ages 2 to 8. 695 E. Colorado Blvd., Pasadena.

Eaton Canyon Nature Center Family nature walk held every Saturday morning, weather permitting, 9 to 11 a.m. Walking shoes, sunscreen, water, hats are recommended for this guided walk geared toward families with small children. Meet in front of the building. 626-398-5420. 1750 N. Altadena Dr., Pasadena.

Pasadena Central Library and its branches offer 15 storytimes each week, for infants through age 8. All programs are free, some require pre-registration. Check website for schedules. .

Pasadena Central Library: Short preschool videos shown every Friday at 10 a.m. in the Donald R. Wright Auditorium. Central Library, 285 E. Walnut St., Pasadena.

The Huntington Library Nature activities are scheduled on Saturdays from 1:30 to 3:30 p.m. Kids of all ages can explore the world of nature at hands-on plant discovery carts located at the Lily Ponds, Desert Garden and Japanese Garden. Older kids can examine plant cross-sections under a microscope, learn how plants and animals use camouflage, compare soil and water samples, or look for local wildlife using a field guide. Younger children can make leaf rubbings, examine seed pods, create origami, or experience "a bug’s life" through insect puppet play. On the first Saturday of each month, nature crafts are also offered near the entrance pavilion. No reservations required; free with museum admission. $15 adults, $12 seniors (65+), $10 students (ages 12-18 or with student I.D.), $6 for youth (ages 5-11), free for children under 5. Information: 626-405-2100. 1151 Oxford Road, San Marino.

Glendora Public Library PJ family story time at 7 p.m. each Wednesday offers a half hour of magical stories, songs and fingerplays. A great alternative to TV! Information: 626-852-4891. Children's Room, 140 S. Glendora Ave., Glendora.

South Pasadena Public Library: Family Storytime Tuesdays 7:30 to 8 p.m.; Pajama Storytime: For ages 3-5, Wednesdays 7 to 7:30 p.m.; Preschool Storytime: For ages 3-5, Thursdays 10:30 to 11 a.m.; Toddler Storytimes: For ages 1-2, Fridays 10:30 to 10:50 a.m.; For ages 2-3 Fridays 11 to 11:20 a.m. Grandparents Read-Aloud: Tuesdays and Thursdays, 3 to 5 p.m. Register at 626-403-7358. 1100 Oxley St., South Pasadena.

Altadena Public Library: Preschool storytime Wednesdays 11 a.m. 626-798-0833. 600 E. Mariposa Ave., Altadena.

Monrovia Canyon Park: Guided nature hike held 10 to 11:30 a.m. most Saturdays. Call 626-256-8282 to confirm. Monrovia Nature Center, 1200 N. Canyon Blvd., Monrovia.

San Marino Public Library: Weekly preschool story time for 3- to 5-year-olds offered on Thursdays at 11:30 a.m. and 1:30 p.m.; Tuesdays at 3:30 for 5- to 8-year-olds. Call 626-300-0777 to register. 1890 Huntington Dr., San Marino.

Mrs. Nelson's Storytimes: Preschool storytime, for ages 2-5 and parents, Tuesdays 10 a.m. PJ Storytime Fridays at 6 p.m. All ages welcome Saturdays at 11 a.m. Register: 909-599-4558. 1030 Bonita Ave., La Verne.

San Dimas Public Library: Preschool story time is held every Friday at 11 a.m. 145 N. Walnut Ave., San Dimas.

Stone Center for Children's Books Children’s storytime is held Saturdays from 10 to 10:30 a.m. Children must be accompanied by an adult. Information: 909-607-3670. Stone Center, Claremont Graduate University, 740 N. College Ave., Claremont.

Arcadia Public Library: Grandparents and Kids reading hour is held Mondays, 3:30 to 4:30 p.m., from Oct. 4 through Dec. 20. This is a drop-in program, no registration required, for children of all ages to hear stories read by experienced, caring seniors. 20 W. Duarte Rd., Arcadia.

MOMS Club of San Dimas: Support group meets regularly for play dates, park days, storytimes, coffees and field trips. Various locations; check online calendar for dates, times. Information: sandimasmomsclub@yahoo.com.

Blue Chair Children's Books Toddler storytime Tuesdays at 11 a.m.; afterschool storytime Thursdays, 3:30 p.m.; special events every Friday night, check website for details. 177 N. Glendora Ave., Glendora.

Gymboree: Play, music and art classes offered on an ongoing basis. Free trial classes for new families. Information on classes: 626-445-1122; parties: 626-445-5161. 518 W. Huntington Dr., Monrovia.

Parents Without Partners Covina Valley chapter of single-parent group holds orientation meeting and dance on the second Friday of each month, 7:30 p.m. to midnight. Information: 626-294-3211. Pyramid Room, Covina Bowl, 1060 E. Rimsdale Ave., Covina.

Sierra Madre Moms Club Support group for mothers and their kids meets weekly and sponsors play groups and park dates. Serves residents of Sierra Madre, Monrovia, Arcadia, Temple City and Duarte. Information: email Paulimorin@earthlink.net .

Hurst Ranch: Living history ranch is open to the public on the second Saturday of each month from 9 a.m. to 1 p.m. Information: 626-813-0116. 1227 S. Orange Ave., West Covina.

MOMS Club of Pasadena Support group for stay-at-home moms meets regularly for all-member meetings, speakers, interest groups, playdates and much more. Serving Pasadena, South Pasadena, San Marino and Ahambra. For more information please e-mail: membershipvp@pasadenamomsclub.com.

Pacific Theatres Monday Mom Movies are first-run film screenings specifically for mothers with babies. Check website for schedule. Paseo 14, Paseo Colorado, Pasadena.

West Covina Library: Homework help is offered on a walk-in basis, free of charge, Monday through Thursday from 3:30 to 7:30 p.m. Helpers assist youngsters in grades 1 through 8 with homework questions, homework strategies and study skills. Help is available in all subjects, including math. Tutoring is available on Saturdays by appointments. Storytimes are held Wednesdays at 6:30 p.m. for the whole family and on Fridays at 10 a.m. for preschoolers. 1601 West Covina Parkway, West Covina.

La Canada Farmer's Market: Held every Saturday from 9 a.m. to 1 p.m. Beulan Street at Foothill Boulevard., La Canada.

Alhambra Farmer's Market: Certified Farmers' Market is held 8 a.m. to 5 p.m. every Sunday. Monterey Street, Alhambra.

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