February 4, 2005

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By Karen E. Klein
I really hate bringing up this subject. Frankly, I wish I never had to discuss it here or anywhere else. But unfortunately, child molestation happens more than we'd like to believe. And while all of us would prefer to shut our eyes and pretend it doesn't exist, I'm convinced that being aware of it is something we must do in order to keep our kids safe.

My boys are good athletes and just plain nice guys, which means that over the years they've attracted quite a bit of friendly attention from coaches, relatives, parents of their friends, pastors and teachers. I understand why adults want to get to know my kids better - heck, I'm flattered that they do! But while I encourage my boys to interact with these folks, many of whom have been role models, I also monitor those interactions with a protective mindset.

I admit I may be a tad paranoid. When I was a young newspaper reporter, one of my first stories was an investigation into a huge child molestation case that revolved around a man living in a rundown trailer park who had sexually exploited dozens of neighbors' kids - boys and girls alike - in the afternoons when their parents were not home. The children's families never learned what was going on, though the crimes occurred over a long period of time, until the police searched the molester's trailer in connection with a drug investigation and uncovered scads of tawdry evidence.

The shocking nature of that evidence, and the idea of those poor, latch-key kids being abused while their parents were not home to supervise them, and then apparently being too ashamed to report what was happening, just broke my heart. And obviously the worry about it stuck with me over the years.

Don't get me wrong: The majority of adults who get friendly with your kids will not have sinister, ulterior motives. These guys (most pedophiles are male) will likely be simply good-hearted folks trying to set a great example for youngsters and contribute to society. Being suspicious of them can not only ruin their lives (if you cast unwarranted aspersions about them), but it can also lead to group hysteria, as we've seen in cases like the McMartin Preschool debacle.

On the other hand, molesters are often "pillars of the community": Long-time and well-trusted teachers, pastors, priests, coaches and youth workers have all turned out to be pedophiles who seek out positions that put them in close contact with kids.

So, how do you maintain balance and reason - and also ensure that sexual abuse and its accompanying long-lasting emotional impact doesn't happen to your child? Honestly, I don't know of a foolproof strategy. But I do believe that awareness and openness can only help.

That means when my boys were younger, I closely supervised the times when they were in the care of other adults. Until they were about 8 and 10, I avoided male babysitters (sexist, I know). I went to baseball and basketball practices and sat on the sidelines, bringing work with me if I had to. I invited their friends to play at our house, and made sure I knew who was going to be home if they went to their friends' houses. Because most molesters turn out to be family members or friends, I kept a close eye on them at big reunions and family gatherings, while not being so protective that they couldn't relax and have fun.

Now that they're older, we've talked about this painful subject. "We're not accusing anybody specifically and we're not suspicious of anybody," I've said. "But this sometimes happens and it's the person that nobody suspects." I've also made clear to them that when abuse occurs, the kids are not at fault - even if they have gone along with the abuse through fear, shame or confusion. And I've impressed upon them the need to tell me - or another adult they trust - if they ever feel uncomfortable about a relationship.

So far, so good. While something inside me hates the fact that watchfulness is even necessary, another part of me feels that the "ostrich" approach is dangerous. It's unfortunate, but I think parents may put their kids in vulnerable positions if they totally ignore reality. Today's awareness may make us needlessly cynical, but it also probably better protects our kids. Here's another place aimed at protecting kids from the unthinkable. If you have a strategy on this topic that has worked for you, let me know about it and I'll pass it along.

On a happier note, I got a lot of mail last time regarding my thoughts about kids and popularity. A couple of parents worried about their pre-teens and how desperate they were to fit in with the "right crowd," making them particularly susceptible to peer pressure. I think that talking with your kids about the cool social group - and pointing out some of their foibles - may help demystify them and make them less appealing (if that's your aim).

The other thing I've always told my kids is that the most-popular kids in school sometimes seem to peak early and are less successful later in life. My husband and I have gone to several high school reunions and been amazed to find that the "big men on campus" were just "average Joe" adults, while some of the most-maligned nerds and least-popular kids turned into the coolest and most "together" adults - perhaps because they were just late-bloomers. For example, my husband grew up with a nerdy boy who was often the victim of practical jokes. But this one-time outcast is now easily the most famous person either of us know - a celebrated, award-winning Broadway playwright. Who would've thunk it?

Here's a quote (from author/playwright Rita Mae Brown) that may shed some perspective on the issue for your child, even if she doesn't fit in with the "in-crowd": "The reward for conformity is that everyone likes you, except yourself."

A while back, I got this inquiry from a reader in San Dimas: "Do you know of any science clubs for elementary-age kids? My 7-year-old daughter loves science, but her second-grade class focuses almost entirely on reading. I'd like to find something to supplement her mad scientist leanings. I'd rather not turn my kitchen into her laboratory right now." I told this mom that it was typical for teachers at that crucial stage to focus on making sure all the kids had mastered reading. And I recommended Science Adventures, a Huntington Beach-based program that supplements school curriculum with fun science projects and instruction. The group puts on summer camps, afterschool clubs, science family nights and other special events around Southern California. My kids enjoyed several of their programs. If you have a mad scientist at home - check them out.

I wish I had a nickel for all the times I've told my kids, "Stop fidgeting and sit still!" Turns out that their restlessness may be biologically based, if this Mayo Clinic study is proven out. The study says that people who sit quietly and are very efficient at storing calories - a biological plus if you're undergoing famine years - tend to be overweight in our food-rich society, while people who fidget more tend to be lean, even if they don't get regular exercise.

If your child is in the less-restless category and needs to slim down, you might check out a healthy eating family workshop being offered by Huntington Hospital. The ongoing, five-session nutritional and exercise course is designed to help families with kids who are at risk for being overweight. Classes include smart shopping tips, family meal planning advice, creating simple recipes, games, parties and activities for kids aged 5 to 12 and their entire families. Sessions are held on Saturdays from 10 a.m. to noon, and Monday and Tuesday nights from 6 to 8 p.m. Families must register and complete medical screening in order to attend. Contact health educator Kam Miller at 626-397-3660 or via email for more information.

My friend Tamara recently recommended the Body Worlds 2 exhibit at the California Science Center. This exhibit is a real look at the human body, using preserved cadavers that have been donated to science. "It's the best exhibit I've ever been to and I highly recommend it if you are at all interested in the workings of the human body," Tamara wrote. An IMAX show on the body is also running near the center.

Tamara cautions that the exhibit is not for the faint of heart, children under 10 or those who may have recently lost a loved one. "You can see everything on the human body, so kids who are embarrassed by this view and can't help but nervously giggle their way through will be pulled aside by the guards and told not to do that anymore or leave," Tamara says. "The environment is very reverent and quiet." She also warns that the exhibit, which follows a similar show that attracted big crowds, is selling out fast. She recommends ordering tickets immediately: 213-744-7540

My kids are champion gigglers, and like most adolescent boys they find nothing more hilarious than anatomical and scatological humor. Even though they're over 10, I have a feeling they'd probably be the types to get tossed out of the building. Between the fidgeting and the giggling, I swear I sometimes feel like the mother on one of their favorite shows, "Malcolm In The Middle." Ah well, I still love 'em.

Speaking of love, here's a Happy Valentine's Day wish for you from The Orange Cat. Our calendar is absolutely packed with great things to do this time around, some of them Valentine-related and some not. Try a new activity and then write and let me know what you think. Until next time, I'm Karen@theorangecat.org

Dates and times subject to change; activities free unless noted; phone numbers provided if reservations are requested; please note age ranges on some activities. Also, see special printable [coupons] exclusively for readers of The Orange Cat.

Friday, Feb. 4, 2005

Wild Weather: Caltech 10 a.m. High-definition film takes a ride with the rains from the wettest place in Europe (the Norwegian town of Bergen where it rains 265 days a year) to the driest place in the U.S. Post-screening discussion will be led by Tomtor Varutbangkul, of Caltech's Division of Chemistry and Chemical Engineering. Event designed for school groups, grades 3-12. $5. Information: 626-395-6059. Beckman Auditorium, 332 S. Michigan Ave., Pasadena.

Saturday, Feb. 5, 2005

Musical Circus: Pasadena Symphony 8:30 to 10 a.m. Jazz pianist Derrick Finch and bassist Ryan Cross perform for and introduce children to the world of music. Concert is preceeded by musical "petting zoo," where kids can hold and "play" orchestral instruments. Information: 626-793-7172. Pasadena Civic Auditorium, 300 E. Green St., Pasadena.

Saturday Craft: Lakeshore Learning Store 11 a.m. to 3 p.m. Let the sun shine in with charming window ornaments that children make themselves. Ages 3 and up. 3848 E. Foothill Blvd., Pasadena.

Summer Opportunities Fair: Westridge School 10 a.m. to 3 p.m. Fair presents information on more than 100 summer school and camp opportunities for boys and girls of all ages in academic and cultural enrichment, outdoor adventure, sports, international travel, day and board situations, community service and volunteer programs and programs for children with special needs. Food, fun and games included. 324 Madeline Dr., Pasadena.

Stand-Up Opera: Caltech 8-10 p.m. Send-up of the opera world is presented by singer, comedianne and actress B.J. Ward. Adults $22, $18, $14; youth $10. Information/tickets: 626-395-4652. Beckman Auditorium, 332 S. Michigan Ave., Pasadena.

Central Chat: Pasadena Central Library 1-2 p.m. A fun book discussion group for ages 13-18; bring your library card. This month's theme: "In Love With Mysteries." Are you addicted to mysteries and thrillers? Have you recently read a fantastic whodunit? Do you have a favorite detective novel? If mysteries are your cup of tea & arsenic, then join us and share your favorites. Teen Central, 285 E. Walnut St., Pasadena.

Monday, Feb. 7, 2005

A Visit with Mr. Lincoln: Hastings Branch Library 7 p.m. An entertaining and educational presentation features Abraham Lincoln talking about his struggles and the importance of reading for success. Also held at 4 p.m., Linda Vista branch, 1281 Bryant St., Pasadena. 3325 E. Orange Grove Blvd., Pasadena.

Tuesday, Feb. 8, 2005

Support Group: MOMS Club of Pasadena-North 10 a.m. General meeting of support group for stay-at-home moms features Pilates instructor Tracy Mallett, from ATP Specific Training. Tracy will talk to us about Pilates and show us how to alleviate some of the stresses our bodies undergo from daily activities. Visitors and children welcome. Information: 626-580-8514 or email: membershipnorth@pasadenamomsclub.com Group has no religious affiliation. Trinity Lutheran Church, 997 E. Walnut St., Pasadena.

Brian Waite Band: Pasadena Central Library 10:30 a.m. This energetic trio from Seattle will delight the whole family with hand-clapping and finger-snapping songs! Donald R. Wright Auditorium, 285 E. Walnut St., Pasadena.

Wednesday, Feb. 9, 2005

Chinese New Year Celebration: La Pintoresca Branch Library 3:30 p.m. Happy Chinese New Year! Kids join us in celebrating the year of the rooster by making fun paper crafts. Create a paper dragon or lantern to take home and eat some delicious sweet treats. 1355 N. Raymond Ave., Pasadena.

Thursday, Feb. 10, 2005

African & African-American Tales: Monrovia Public Library 3:45 p.m. Award-winning storyteller Leslie Perry will present entertaining and participatory stories celebrating Black History Month. Geared to children ages 5 and up. Limited seating; arrive early. 321 S. Myrtle Ave., Monrovia.

Valentine Fun: Linda Vista Branch Library 4 p.m. Hear a valentine story and make a valentine for a special person. For school-aged children. 1281 Bryant St., Pasadena.

Saturday, Feb. 12, 2005

Bunnicula: Haugh Performing Arts Center 1:30 and 3:30 p.m. Musical presented by Omaha Theatre Company for Young People is part of a series of theater productions designed especially to introduce young children to the theater. Ages 5 to 13. $6. Citrus College, 1000 W. Foothill Blvd., Glendora.

15th Annual Bowl-A-Thon: Special Olympics Pasadena Area 9 a.m. Bowl three games with free shoe rental and door prizes, all to raise funds for local Special Olympics programs. $10 per bowler. Bahama Bowling Lanes, 3545 E. Foothill Blvd., Pasadena.

Valentine Party: Monrovia Public Library 11 a.m. and 2 pm. Children of all ages are invited to attend as we focus on this very special holiday celebrating love! Valentine stories, songs and a film will be shown and kids will get to to make a craft to keep or give to someone they adore. Refreshments provided. 321 S. Myrtle Ave., Monrovia.

Ologunde: Caltech 8 p.m. Celebrate the Afro-Brazilian culture of Salvador, Bahia with 15-member music and dance ensemble. Dances include the capoira martial arts dance; the maculele warrior dance and the samba de roda. Adults $22, 18, 14; $10 youth. Tickets: 888-2CALTECH (222-5832). Beckman Auditorium, 332 S. Michigan Ave., Pasadena.

Saturday Craft: Lakeshore Learning Store 11 a.m. to 3 p.m. We’ve got everything kids need to create a Valentine’s Day centerpiece that’s blooming with colorful cutout hearts. Ages 3 and up. 3848 E. Foothill Blvd., Pasadena.

Magic the Gathering: Pasadena Central Library 3-5 p.m. Fun for beginners or experienced players. Enjoy the card game that started the whole collectible card game hobby. Teen Central, 285 E. Walnut St., Pasadena.

Writeen!: Pasadena Central Library 12:30 to 2 p.m. Teen novelists, poets and creative writers who want to share their work, learn some new tips and re-energize their brains are invited to a six-week workshop devoted to the art and craft of writing. It will be an hour and a half of fun, challenge and plenty of new ideas. Snacks and drinks will be served. Teen Central, 285 E. Walnut Ave., Pasadena.

Sunday, Feb. 13, 2005

Silent Film Night: Sierra Madre Historical Preservation Society 6 p.m. An evening of nostalgia features screening of "The Mark Of Zorro," starring Douglas Fairbanks, a 1921 action-packed tale of old California. Famed organist Bob Mitchell will play a Wurlitzer organ to accompany the film just as he did in the days of silent films. A "Felix The Cat" short will be shown along with the film and there will be free popcorn and soda. $20. Tickets: 626-355-3905. Event benefits the production of a definitive history of Sierra Madre to be published in 2007 to honor the city's centennial. Masonic Lodge, 33 E. Sierra Madre Blvd., Sierra Madre.

Monday, Feb. 14, 2005

Children's Concert: South Pasadena Public Library 4 p.m. Local musician Dave Kinnoin performs as part of the library's "Kindness Connects Us All" program, celebrating "Random Acts of Kindness Week Feb. 14 to 20. After the concert, children will be invited to contemplate kind deeds and thoughts that they can share with others, to write down those ideas, to create their personal cutout to decorate the children’s department bulletin board and to read stories about famous and not-so-famous people who have been considerate and made a difference in the world. 1100 Oxley St., South Pasadena.

Valentine's Day Crafts: Allendale Branch Library 2 p.m. Calling all school-aged children! Come to the library between 2 and 3 p.m. to make your sweetheart something special. Family-oriented Valentine video follows at 3:30 p.m. 1130 S. Marengo Ave., Pasadena.

Valentine Hearts: Lamanda Park Branch Library 6 p.m. Come create a special valentine gift for that special someone. Kevin Crain will teach teens how to make beautiful Valentine hearts - each one is unique. Give it as a present, keep it for yourself or let us make arrangements to mail your Valentine to our troops overseas. 140 S. Altadena Dr., Pasadena.

Rhyme Time Valentine: Lamanda Park Branch Library 3:30 p.m. Roses are red. Violets are blue. We have a valentine for each of you. This Valentine’s Day will be the best ever. Get your valentines ready and give each one a special rhyme. 140 S. Altadena Dr., Pasadena.

Tuesday, Feb. 15, 2005

Safety for Preschoolers: Hill Avenue Branch Library 11 a.m. A Pasadena Police Department representative will clue us in on matters of safety during everyday events. For parents, any specific questions on your mind about children’s safety? Please bring them with you. This will be an informative program geared toward parents and their preschoolers. Refreshments will be served. 55 W. Hill Ave., Pasadena.

Celebrating Black History Month: Santa Catalina Branch Library 3 p.m. Share your knowledge of African-American history through an exciting informational quiz. All ages are welcome; light refreshments will be served. 999 E. Washington Blvd., Pasadena.

Wednesday, Feb. 16, 2005

Tia!: Santa Catalina Branch Library 10:30 a.m. She’s coming, she’s coming! Tia is back by popular demand. Children of all ages will be captivated by her songs and stories. Join us for a fun-filled morning! 999 E. Washington Blvd., Pasadena.

Thursday, Feb. 17, 2005

Taking Care of Yourself: Mothers & More Pasadena 7 p.m. Guest speaker addresses support group for moms. Visitors welcome; no children over 6 months. Polytechnic School, Boswell Library, between Cornell & Arden on Wilson Ave., Pasadena.

Family Story Night: Arcadia Public Library 7-8 p.m. We welcome all ages at this special family storytime exploring stories of friendship and kindness. Enjoy a video and a special craft time also. 20 W. Duarte Road, Arcadia.

Saturday, Feb. 19, 2005

Chinese New Year: The Huntington Library 10:30 a.m. to 4:30 p.m. Family festival marks the start of the Year of the Rooster. Activities include Chinese flower market, lion dancers and martial arts demonstrations, folk dancers, storytelling, musicians, Chinese painting demonstration and a talk about the botanical and symbolic aspects of plants and flowers of the Chinese New Year. Crafts for children include dough doll making, paper cutting, knotting and lantern making, and Chinese calligraphy. Included with admission fee of $15 adults, $12 seniors, $10 students age 12-18, $6 ages 5-11, free under 5. Information: 626-405-2100. 1151 Oxford Rd., San Marino.

Informational Workshop: Great Wall China Adoption 10 a.m. Informational meeting sponsored by nonprofit adoption advocacy agency is aimed at adults who are interested in exploring adoptions in China. Westin Pasadena Hotel, 191 N. Los Robles Ave., Pasadena.

Saturday Craft: Lakeshore Learning Store 11 a.m. to 3 p.m. Kids can’t wait to jot down messages on hanging notepads that they’ve created themselves. Ages 3 and up. 3848 E. Foothill Blvd., Pasadena.

Boardgame Afternoon: Pasadena Central Library 3-5 p.m. Challenge other game lovers to Risk, Monopoly, Chess, Connect Four, Yahtzee, Checkers, Life, Battleship and more. Teen Central, 285 E. Walnut St., Pasadena.

Anime Review: Pasadena Central Library 11 a.m. to 12:30 p.m. Join us in the for an afternoon of free animé! Lovers of Japanese animation who are ages 13-18 are invited. Newbies to the world of animé are invited too. Snacks and drinks will be served. Teen Services: 626-744-4766. Donald R. Wright Auditorium, 285 E. Walnut St., Pasadena.

Crazy About Comics, Mad About Manga: Pasadena Central Library 1-2 p.m. Bring two or three of your favorite comics, manga and graphic novels to share and come see what’s new at the library. 285 E. Walnut St., Pasadena.

Register Early

Barks and Books: Pasadena Humane Society Be a special reading buddy to a real live dog! Elementary school-aged children can read a book about dogs to a gentle dog. This program is held several times a month; check website for times and reservations. Various Pasdena branch libraries.

Cooking With Kids: Los Angeles County Arboretum Workshop on Wednesday, April 13, from 4-6 p.m. is for children ages 8 to 10. Alexandra Poer Sheridan, mother, chef and caterer, teaches kids to prepare Sunday breakfast for their families. Starting with a walk through the kitchen garden to pick fresh ingredients, kids will learn to make omelettes, muffins, fruit skewers and pancakes with initials on them. $25. Space limited. Register: 626-821-4623. 301 N. Baldwin Ave., Arcadia.

Arbor Day Art Class: South Pasadena Public Library "Drawing and Painting Trees" is a class presented by Vivian Flynn of the Chouinard Foundation School of Art for children ages 7 and up. Class will be held March 12 from 10 to 11:30 a.m. Reservations must be made by March 1 at the library or by calling 626-403-7358. 1100 Oxley St., South Pasadena.

Open Houses: Cottage Co-op Nursery School Information nights for prospective parents will be held Feb. 8 and March 2 at 6:30 p.m for fall enrollment. Cottage Co-op is a parent-owned nursery school that follows the "whole child" approach to learning and development, emphasizing learning through play for children ages 2 (potty training not required) to 5. Reservations: 626-799-0387 or online. 169 West Arlington Dr., Pasadena.

Master Ballet Class: Le Studio Serious ballet students may sign up to take a master class with world-renowned Ballet Master Mansur Kamaletdinov, formerly of the Bolshoi Ballet, on Feb. 20 from 2 to 5 p.m. The class will serve as an audition for those wishing to attend his 10th International Vaganova Summer School, to be held at Le Studio from Aug. 1-20. The program is mostly for advanced and pre-professional students, ages 12 and up, but an intermediate group may be added depending on size of enrollment. $25. Contact Geraldine Baum for registration/information: 323-953-5177 or email info@russianballet.net 100 W. Villa St., Pasadena.

Toddler Program: Art & Nature The Huntington Library With paintbrush and magnifying glass in hand, youngsters 3 to 5 will explore The Huntington in search of art and nature in the gardens and galleries, and through stories, crafts, and songs. Program will be held Thursdays from Feb. 3 to 24, 10:30 a.m. to noon. $65 registration includes one parent or guardian. (Please, no younger siblings.) Registration: 626-405-2128. 1151 Oxford Rd., San Marino.

Junior Master Gardeners: The Huntington Library Plants are beautiful to see, but they are also fun to feel. Their textures can be smooth, fuzzy, coarse or silky. Youngsters ages 8 to 11 will stimulate their senses in this workshop and get "in touch" with their inner gardener. To be held Saturday, Feb. 12, 9 a.m. to noon. $35. Registration: 626-405-3586. 1151 Oxford Road, San Marino.

Children’s Camellia Workshop: The Huntington Library Winter is the perfect season to explore the world of camellias. On Saturday, Feb. 12, from 9 to 11:30 a.m., kids will trek through a forest of towering blooms, get inspired to create some flowery crafts and brew up a leafy concoction otherwise known as tea. Did you know that the leaves of the Camellia sinensis plant are the source of all black and green teas? Ages 7 and up. $15. Registration: 626-405-2128. 1151 Oxford Road, San Marino.

Junior Master Gardeners: The Huntington Library Worms are recyclers, fertilizers and diggers - in other words, a garden’s buried treasure. Junior gardeners in grades 3-5 will unearth the secret world of worms in this workshop, "The Wonderful World of Worms," on Saturday, Feb. 26 from 9 a.m. to noon. $35. Registration: 626-405-3586. 1151 Oxford Road, San Marino.

Bonsai Workshop: The Huntington Library Adults and children can learn the art of bonsai from the masters in a hands-on workshop on Saturday, Feb. 26 from 9 to 11 a.m. Adults: $20; children $15. Registration adults: 626-405-2146. Registration kids: 626-405-2128. 1151 Oxford Road, San Marino.

Workshop for Child Care Givers: Alhambra Public Library KCET's "A Place of our Own Workshop" will be held Feb. 12 from 9 a.m. to 1 p.m. The training workshop is for informal, license-exempt, family, friend and neighbor child caregivers who care for young children in their homes. The training workshop extends the lessons taught in the KCET program and provides professional development and continuing education through discussion, video presentations and hands-on activities. Caregivers will gain a better understanding of key child-care issues, explore best practices and practice ways to reinforce theme-based concepts at home, including print literacy, the importance of play & learning and positive discipline and conflict resolution. Registration: 626-570-3281. 410 W. Main St., Alhambra.

Rhythms of the Village: Alhambra Public Library In tribute to African Heritage Month, Onochie Chukwurah and "Rhythms of the Village" will explore African oral traditions as passed down through folktales, riddles, proverbs, myths and legends. The Wednesday, Feb. 16 program at 7 p.m. will help expand your understanding of the African experience through the use of masks, songs, drumming and dance. Reservations: 626-570-3215. 410 W. Main St., Alhambra.

DIY Edible Flowers: La Pintoresca Branch Library Paint a flower pot to fill with flowers that you can eat. Workshop to be held Tuesday, Feb. 8 at 3 p.m. for teens ages 13 and up. Reservations: 626-744-7268. 1355 N. Raymond Ave., Pasadena.

Continuing Activities

Montrose Harvest Market: Weekly farmer's market includes giant slide, obstacle course bouncer and 25-foot portable rock climbing wall. Sundays, 9 a.m. to 2 p.m. Information: 818-957-3809. Montrose Shopping Park, Honolulu Ave. and Ocean View Blvd, Montrose.

Monrovia Public Library "Time for Twos" is an introductory storytime for toddlers and their parents held Tuesdays and Fridays, 10:45 to 11:15 a.m. Activities include stories, songs, flannel tales and a small creative project. "Munchkin Storytime" is offered on Wednesdays and Thursdays, 10:45 to 11:30 a.m. for children 3-5. The half-hour program includes stories, songs, flannel tales and incentive stickers. 321 S. Myrtle Ave., Monrovia.

Sierra Madre Public Library: Two Preschool story hours are held each week in the Children's Room. Mondays at 10 a.m., and Wednesdays at 7 p.m. Cathy Ryne, children's librarian, tells stories, sings songs, and organizes craft projects. 626-355-7186. 440 W. Sierra Madre Blvd., Sierra Madre.

Excellence in Education Home school park day; bring lunch, toys, games, sports equipment. Mondays at noon. Eisenhower Park, Colorado Blvd at Second St., Arcadia..

Monrovia Reads: Hour-long story times include crafts, stories, songs and fingerplay. Ages 0-5 with parents or caretakers. Tuesdays 10 a.m., All Nations Church, 1948 S. Peck Road; Thursdays 10 a.m., Boys and Girls Club, 600 S. Shamrock Ave., Monrovia.

MOMS Club of Pasadena-North Support group for stay-at-home moms meets regularly for all-member meetings, speakers, interest groups, playdates and much more. Serving Pasadena (north of 210 fwy) and Altadena. For more information please e-mail: membershipnorth@pasadenamomsclub.com .

MOMS Club of LaVerne Support group meets regularly for play dates, park days, storytimes, coffees and field trips. Various locations; check online calendar for dates, times. Information: momsclublvsd@yahoo.com .

Jungle Gym Rock Climbing: Toddler and children's climbing classes, homeschool groups, competitive climbing and winter adventure camp offered at gym designed for kids 14 months to 14 years. Birthday parties and family nights also available. Information: 626-446-5014. 305 N. Santa Anita Blvd., Arcadia.

Adventuring Preschool Playgroup: We are moms of preschoolers in the San Gabriel Valley, exploring different free museums, parks and taking field trips together. We meet Tuesdays from 9:30 a.m. to 12:30 p.m. Call Michelle for information: 626-335-3042 or email: butlig@integrity.com .

Mt. San Antonio College International marketplace is held every Sunday from 8 a.m. to 3:30 p.m., featuring arts and crafts, antiques and certified farmer's market. Parking and admission is free. Stadium parking lot, off Temple Avenue, just west of Cal Poly.

Huntington Hospital: Perinatal Health Education department offers ongoing classes and support groups for new moms, including breastfeeding Thursdays 10 to 11:30 a.m.; Mommy & Me Tuesdays 9:30 to 11:30 a.m.; Postnatal Fitness Mondays, Wednesdays and Fridays, 5:45 to 6 p.m.; Baby & Me; infant care; and infant/child CPR. Some classes involve fees. Information and registration: 626-397-8768. .

Monrovia Family Festival: 5 to 9 p.m. Fridays. Games, food, rides, shopping and farmer's market. Myrtle Ave south of Foothill Blvd, Monrovia.

MOMS Club of Covina & West Covina Support group meets reularly for playdates, walking groups, parties for stay-at-home moms or part-time working moms seeking day time activities for children of all ages. Serves mothers in Covina, West Covina, Azusa and Irwindale. New member meetings held at 10:30 a.m. on the last Tuesday of every month. Information: email JillVidal@hotmail.com Covina Library, 234 N. Second Ave., Covina.

Vroman's Book Store: 10 a.m. Wednesdays and Saturdays. Storytime with Mr. Steve features contemporary and classic tales read aloud. Ages 2 to 8. 695 E. Colorado Blvd., Pasadena.

Eaton Canyon Nature Center Family nature walk held every Saturday morning, weather permitting, 9 to 11 a.m. Walking shoes, sunscreen, water, hats are recommended for this guided walk geared toward families with small children. Meet in front of the building. 626-398-5420. 1750 N. Altadena Dr., Pasadena.

Pasadena Central Library and its branches offer 15 storytimes each week, for infants through age 8. All programs are free, some require pre-registration. Check website for schedules. .

Pasadena Central Library: Short preschool videos shown every Friday at 10 a.m. in the Donald R. Wright Auditorium. Central Library, 285 E. Walnut St., Pasadena.

The Huntington Library Nature activities are scheduled on Saturdays from 1:30 to 3:30 p.m. Kids of all ages can explore the world of nature at hands-on plant discovery carts located at the Lily Ponds, Desert Garden and Japanese Garden. Older kids can examine plant cross-sections under a microscope, learn how plants and animals use camouflage, compare soil and water samples, or look for local wildlife using a field guide. Younger children can make leaf rubbings, examine seed pods, create origami, or experience "a bug's life" through insect puppet play. On the first Saturday of each month, nature crafts are also offered near the entrance pavilion. No reservations required; free with museum admission. $15 adults, $12 seniors (65+), $10 students (ages 12-18 or with student I.D.), $6 for youth (ages 5-11), free for children under 5. Information: 626-405-2100. 1151 Oxford Road, San Marino.

Glendora Public Library PJ family story time at 7 p.m. each Wednesday offers a half hour of magical stories, songs and fingerplays. A great alternative to TV! Information: 626-852-4891. Children's Room, 140 S. Glendora Ave., Glendora.

South Pasadena Public Library: Family Storytime Tuesdays 7:30 to 8 p.m.; Pajama Storytime: For ages 3-5, Wednesdays 7 to 7:30 p.m.; Preschool Storytime: For ages 3-5, Thursdays 10:30 to 11 a.m.; Toddler Storytimes: For ages 1-2, Fridays 10:30 to 10:50 a.m.; For ages 2-3 Fridays 11 to 11:20 a.m. Grandparents Read-Aloud: Mondays, Tuesdays and Thursdays, 3 to 5 p.m. Register at 626-403-7358. 1100 Oxley St., South Pasadena.

Altadena Public Library: Preschool storytime Wednesdays 11 a.m. 626-798-0833. 600 E. Mariposa Ave., Altadena.

San Marino Public Library: Weekly preschool story time for 3- to 5-year-olds offered on Thursdays at 11:30 a.m. and 1:30 p.m.; Tuesdays at 3:30 for 5- to 8-year-olds. Call 626-300-0777 to register. 1890 Huntington Dr., San Marino.

Mrs. Nelson's Storytimes: Preschool storytime, for ages 2-5 and parents, Tuesdays 10 a.m. PJ Storytime Fridays at 6 p.m. All ages welcome Saturdays at 11 a.m. Register: 909-599-4558. 1030 Bonita Ave., La Verne.

San Dimas Public Library: Preschool story time is held every Friday at 11 a.m. 145 N. Walnut Ave., San Dimas.

Terrific Twosomes Mothers of Multiples: San Gabriel Valley-based, non-profit support organization exists as a forum for parents of twins, triplets, quadruplets and higher multipes to come together to exchange everything from advice to outgrown baby clothing! We meet on the second Tuesday evening of each month; see website for details on meeting place and time. .

Arcadia Public Library: Grandparents and Kids reading hour is held Mondays, 3:30 to 4:30 p.m., from Oct. 4 through Dec. 20. This is a drop-in program, no registration required, for children of all ages to hear stories read by experienced, caring seniors. 20 W. Duarte Rd., Arcadia.

Healthy Eating Lifestyle Program: Ongoing, five-session nutritional and exercise workshop is designed to help families with kids who are at risk for being overweight. Classes include smart shopping tips, family meal planning advice, creating simple recipes, games, parties and activities for kids aged 5 to 12 and their entire families. Sessions held on Saturdays from 10 a.m. to noon, and Monday and Tuesday nights from 6 to 8 p.m. Families must register and complete medical screening in order to attend. Contact health educator Kam Miller at 626-397-3660 or via email: healthy.eating@huntingtonhospital.com Huntington Hospital, 100 W. California Blvd., Pasadena.

Sierra Madre Public Library: Items and artifacts commemorating J.R.R. Tolkien’s famous trilogy, "The Lord of the Rings," are displayed at the library during January. The occasion is the 50th anniversary of the publication of the books. The pieces are from the collection of Sierra Madrean Katrelya Angus, who designed the display. Library hours: Monday through Wednesday, noon to 9 p.m.; Thursday and Friday, noon to 6 p.m.; Saturday, 10 a.m. to 6 p.m. 440 W. Sierra Madre Blvd., Sierra Madre.

MOMS Club of San Dimas: Support group meets regularly for play dates, park days, storytimes, coffees and field trips. Various locations; check online calendar for dates, times. Information: sandimasmomsclub@yahoo.com .

Blue Chair Children's Books Toddler storytime Tuesdays at 11 a.m.; afterschool storytime Thursdays, 3:30 p.m.; special events every Friday night, check website for details. 177 N. Glendora Ave., Glendora.

Gymboree: Play, music and art classes offered on an ongoing basis. Free trial classes for new families. Information on classes: 626-445-1122; parties: 626-445-5161. 518 W. Huntington Dr., Monrovia.

Parents Without Partners Covina Valley chapter of single-parent group holds orientation meeting and dance on the second Friday of each month, 7:30 p.m. to midnight. Information: 626-294-3211. Pyramid Room, Covina Bowl, 1060 E. Rimsdale Ave., Covina.

Sierra Madre Moms Club Support group for mothers and their kids meets weekly and sponsors play groups and park dates. Serves residents of Sierra Madre, Monrovia, Arcadia, Temple City and Duarte. Information: email Paulimorin@earthlink.net .

Hurst Ranch: Living history ranch is open to the public on the second Saturday of each month from 9 a.m. to 1 p.m. Information: 626-813-0116. 1227 S. Orange Ave., West Covina.

MOMS Club of Pasadena Support group for stay-at-home moms meets regularly for all-member meetings, speakers, interest groups, playdates and much more. Serving Pasadena, South Pasadena, San Marino and Ahambra. For more information please e-mail: membershipvp@pasadenamomsclub.com .

Pacific Theatres Monday Mom Movies are first-run film screenings specifically for mothers with babies. Check website for schedule. Paseo 14, Paseo Colorado, Pasadena.

West Covina Library: Homework help is offered on a walk-in basis, free of charge, Monday through Thursday from 3:30 to 7:30 p.m. Helpers assist youngsters in grades 1 through 8 with homework questions, homework strategies and study skills. Help is available in all subjects, including math. Tutoring is available on Saturdays by appointments. Storytimes are held Wednesdays at 6:30 p.m. for the whole family and on Fridays at 10 a.m. for preschoolers. 1601 West Covina Parkway, West Covina.

Kidspace Children's Museum: Where else can kids dig, learn about fossils and the evolution of earthquakes, ride trikes and climb 40 feet into the air? Museum exhibits highlight the arts, sciences and humanities in a manner that promotes exploration, investigation and expression. Open 9:30 a.m. to 5 p.m. daily, closed Thanksgiving, Christmas, New Year's Day. Admission: $8 for adults and children; under 1 free. 480 N. Arroyo Blvd., Pasadena.

Hastings Branch Library "Where in the World Am I?" Children’s series on Thursdays in January at 4 p.m. Join us as we travel the world to discover folktale stories, crafts and family life in cultures around the world. Visit India, Brazil, Russia and China and learn about faraway lands. 3325 E. Orange Grove Blvd., Pasadena.

La Canada Farmer's Market: Held every Saturday from 9 a.m. to 1 p.m. Beulan Street at Foothill Boulevard., La Canada.

Lamanda Park Branch Library Animé movie screenings will be held Mondays in January at 6 p.m. Come watch the latest animé movies in our new teen center. Popcorn will be served during intermission in the meeting room. 140 S. Altadena Dr., Pasadena.

Kids Island Parenting classes, infant play area, arts and crafts, music and dance studios, open play times and children's parties are offered at this indoor center for children six months to six years. Call for information/admission prices: 626-447-8003. 1313 S. Baldwin Ave., Arcadia.

Follow The Rainbow: 3,000-square-foot indoor playground has things to climb on, bounce on, dig in and play with. A safe, fun environment for young children with quieter room for reading or board and card games provided for older children. Parents can play with their kids, stand back and guide them or sit and relax in view of all the action. Open 7 days, 10 a.m. to 5 p.m. Daily admission: $7, monthly $30, annual pass $105. Birthday parties start at $300. 626-794-0925. 2525 N. Lake Ave., Altadena.

Alhambra Farmer's Market: Certified Farmers' Market is held 8 a.m. to 5 p.m. every Sunday. Monterey Street, Alhambra.

Are you aware of a great event or venue that we're not listing? If so, please let us know so we can include it in the next Orange Cat. Email: karen@theorangecat.org.

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