March 4, 2005

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By Karen E. Klein
A friend recently emailed me the latest installment in a series of nationally publicized stories that portray parents behaving badly. You know the kind I'm talking about: Dads throwing punches at Little League umpires because they called the third strike on their kid, Moms making excuses for their children's abominable rudeness, parents becoming outraged when their kids are held accountable for things like bad grades or poor attendance.

An integral part of the parenting instinct is protection. We all want to protect our kids from physical harm and emotional unhappiness. And if we don't have that maternal or paternal instinct at first, our babies are wonderfully equipped to instill it in us. When they are unhappy they don't gurgle softly or coo gently. No, they screech (at least mine did) in a ear-shattering manner designed to set off all the parental alarms. We will do anything (or at least I did) to stop the noise, which usually means simply alleviating the infant's pain - whether that be feeding, changing a diaper or swaddling her snugly in a receiving blanket. It's a good thing, from a survival perspective, that babies are so hard to ignore.

But it's also why it's so tough for parents to make the transition, as their children get older, to teaching them responsibility. There are kids who are just naturally responsible. My younger son, for example. A little training here, a reminder there, but overall, he's always been good about keeping his room neat, getting his homework done on time and making sure he knows where his sports equipment is and when he has to be at practice.

Then there are other kids who only learn responsibility after they suffer the consequences of irresponsibility. My older son falls into this camp. Naturally forgetful, he doesn't worry much about double-checking his homework before he leaves for school. Why should he, when Mom can be counted on to trek up to campus and hand-deliver that paper he worked on so hard the night before? Yes, I plead guilty to aiding and abetting his absent-mindedness. But how could I let him get a failing grade on that essay he slaved over? How could I let him sit idly during orchestra on the days he forgot his violin? How could I let him go without eating when he forgot his lunch? He'd starve to death! I only wish I had a dollar for every time I raced to school with some item he'd overlooked because he didn't take two minutes to organize himself before he left for school.

This urge to protect him goes way back. I read the books that said parents shouldn't necessarily swoop in and rescue their kids, but should stand back and let them develop the resourcefulness they need to solve problems. But Matt was a "high-need" baby and an easily frustrated, impatient toddler. Instead of calmly and persistently puzzling through a problem - like how to stack blocks or pry apart two Duplos - he was more likely to scream, cry and throw the offending objects across the room. If he couldn't master something immediately, he would have a tantrum. Easily frustrated and impatient myself (sensing a pattern here?), I admit I too-often took the easy way out and stepped in to do things for him. Unfortunately, while that averted the immediate tantrum, it didn't do much to help him learn how to stick with a problem until he figured it out for himself.

I see the same instincts in a lot of other parents, especially when it comes to emotional protection. For instance, my boys play sports, and the people who coach them tend to be pretty competitive types. They're not always primarily motivated to volunteer for the job out of a sense of civic duty (as I naively assumed before I had children). No, most of them volunteer because they love athletics and they love to win. As the players get older, the coaches get more adamant about winning. They want to get the best performances they can out of their players - which sometimes means their voices get loud and their comments aren't always couched in "sensitive" language.

Some parents can't hold back their urges to chastise a coach who is critical or demand that he stop "picking on" their kid. They question why their son or daughter isn't getting more playing time or hasn't been put in a better position. If the answers aren't satisfactory, I've seen them pull their kids from the team.

The same thing happens with teachers. There are blunt, no-nonsense teachers who aren't warm and fuzzy toward their students and who will not accept excuses for sloppy work. They are the veterans whose rules sometimes seem rigid and unfair, and it's not surprising to hear that parents step in to rescue their kids from them, make excuses and try to bargain some way out of a bad situation.

But, like my intervening to rescue Matt from a frustrating Duplo session or taking his forgotten homework to school, this kind of parental involvement doesn't help kids much in the long run. There's a heartbreaking scene in the movie "Ray" where the young Ray Charles, who has recently gone blind, trips over something in the shack where he lives with his mother and falls down, crying out for her in a panic. His mother, who is standing on the other side of the room, resists that overwhelming maternal instinct to run to him, pick him up and dry his tears. Instead, she lets him cry a while and waits, watching as he gradually calms down and begins to orient himself by listening to the small sounds around him: a bird singing outside, a cricket chirping under a chair and eventually, the sound of his mother breathing across the room.

The scene powerfully illustrates a point that parents would do well to remember. Ray's mother realized that if she stepped in to rescue him every time he was lost or scared, she would effectively turn him into an invalid. Harsh as it seemed, and it did break my mother's heart to watch it, she knew he would never function by himself in the sighted world unless she put him in a position where he had to.

There is a time for intervention, of course. When a teacher or coach is downright insulting or singles your child out for ridicule, there's no point in sticking to a "bloom where you are planted" mentality. I suffered through several sadistic ballet teachers and one insane junior high Spanish teacher without complaining about them to my mother, and looking back I realize I should have alerted her.

But in general, I think the best policy is to let your kids strike out once in a while. If they don't do their homework, or forget to turn it in on time, let them take their lumps. Don't make excuses for them or demand that they be given a plum position on the team even if the coach doesn't put them there. It's hard to do - believe me, I know. But life doesn't treat us with kid gloves, and I think at some point we have to let our kids realize that for themselves, instead of protecting them continuously. Reality hits eventually, and they will have to learn to take criticism, play by the rules and shake off angry remarks some day. When they get older, if they want to play sports they'll have to learn not to take it personally when the coach yells (and believe me, high school coaches yell). When they are adults, they will have to deal with bosses who aren't sensitive and won't listen to excuses about why the work didn't get done. They'll have to sit next to prickly co-workers and cope with tyrannical managers. The sooner they learn those skills, the easier it will be to put them into practice.

The other thing to keep in mind is that those crotchety coaches and tough teachers are often diamonds in the rough - people who go on to have huge impacts on our lives if we stick it out and learn from them. My horseback riding coach, for instance, might politely be described as "blunt." (She could be impolitely described in other terms, but I'll spare you those.) Her critiques are not couched in niceties, she's not overtly encouraging and her tone is often curt. When I started riding a few years ago, I had to steel myself not to take her tone or her comments personally. Many students couldn't do that, and they didn't stay in her class for very long.

I did, and now I can say I'm very glad about that. I have learned more from her than from most teachers I've had in my life. Underneath the grumpy exterior, she is smart, funny and incredibly talented. And I can always count on her to give me an honest opinion when I talk to her about something in my life - and honesty is rare, in my experience. A lot of people won't give you the truth because they're trying to spare your feelings. That's not the case with this teacher.

So, don't behave badly in an effort to rescue your children. If they forget lunch, they won't starve - really. But they will be hungry enough to remember to put it in their backpacks the next day. When Matt left a report on the kitchen table recently, I let it sit there until he got home. And when his basketball coach yelled at him during a game, I cringed inside but bit my lip. At his age, if his mother complained he'd rightly be humiliated. Just like my kids, I'm learning. I don't think you ever stop.

On another topic, do you need an easy, make-ahead dinner dish? Our reliable recipe-writer, the wonderful Dorothy Reinhold, swears that she throws her "Oven-Baked Macaroni and Cheese" together while she's cleaning up the kitchen, and has dinner for six ready without any fuss or muss. Here's what she does: Heat oven to 350 degrees. Put 2 T. butter or margarine in a 13-by-9-inch baking dish and put it in the hot oven for a couple of minutes, until the butter melts. Swirl the dish around when you take it out, to coat the bottom and partway up the sides of the dish, then add 2 ½ cups uncooked elbow macaroni. (Note: That's raw pasta - don't boil it first.) Stir to coat the macaroni with the butter, then sprinkle it with 1/2 t. salt and a grind of black pepper. Next, sprinkle it with 3 cups shredded Cheddar or Mexican-blend cheese (buy the pre-shredded package to save time) and toss to mix. Pour a quart of milk (low-fat is fine) evenly over the top and tamp down any rogue macaroni that are sticking up. Bake for an hour, uncovered, then remove it from the oven, stir and serve.

Anybody know of a local musician who will perform children's songs on the guitar for birthday parties? Orange Cat reader Jennifer would like a referral if you have one. Email me: Karen@theorangecat.org and I'll pass it along. Have a great weekend!

Dates and times subject to change; activities free unless noted; phone numbers provided if reservations are requested; please note age ranges on some activities. Also, see special printable [coupons] and [classifieds] exclusively for readers of The Orange Cat.

Friday, March 4, 2005

Art Night Pasadena: Twelve Pasdena Cultural Institutions 6-10 p.m. Visitors can sample the variety and quality of art, artifacts and music throughout Pasadena during semi-annual evening when a dozen institutions open their doors to the public for free. Collaborating venues will be linked by free shuttle service and include Armory Center for the Arts, Armory Northwest, Student Gallery of Art Center College of Design, Norton Simon Museum of Art, One Colorado, Pacific Asia Museum, Pasadena City College, Pasadena Conservatory of Music, Pasadena Museum of California Art, Pasadena Museum of History, Pasadena Jazz Institute at Levitt Pavilion for the Performing Arts and Pasadena Symphony at the Civic Auditorium. Taking Metro Gold Line is encouraged; shuttle will service the station. Information: 626-744-7249. Main shuttle stop is Armory Center, Raymond Ave. near Holly Street, Pasadena.

Children's Concert: Shumei Hall 12:40 p.m. Concert saxophonist Ashu will tell children about the saxophone, demonstrate its remarkable capabilities and discuss how classical music can communicate vivid stories and emotions. Designed for third grade and up. Concert will also be performed Sunday, March 6 at 2:30 p.m. Reservations: 626-584-8841. 2430 E. Colorado Blvd., Pasadena.

Saturday, March 5, 2005

Musical Circus: The Pasadena Symphony 8:30 to 10 a.m. Performance by the Los Angeles Children's Chorus is preceded by a musical "petting zoo" where children 10 and under can hold and play symphony instruments. Information: 626-793-7172. Pasadena Civic Auditorium, 300 E. Green St., Pasadena.

Saturday Craft: Lakeshore Learning Store 11 a.m. to 3 p.m. Celebrate family by creating a hanging family banner made from felt, sequins, macaroni and more. Ages 3 and up. 3848 E. Foothill Blvd., Pasadena.

Kids Music Club University of La Verne 10 a.m. Go to the opera with this workshop that introduces children to music education. Information: 909-593-3511 x4921. Founders Auditorium, second floor, 1950 Third St., La Verne.

Author Event: Pacific Asia Museum 2 p.m. Celebrate National Women's History Month with readings from "Women Warriors: Adventures from History's Greatest Female Fighters" by Teena Apeles. Books will be available for purchase and signing. Event free with museum admission of $7 adults, $5 students/seniors. Reservations: 626-449-2742, ext. 20. 46 N. Los Robles Ave., Pasadena.

Arcadia Storytime Signups: Arcadia Public Library 10 a.m. Popular storytime groups for ages 4 months through six years will begin taking registration today. Arcadia residents are given priority with registration from 10 a.m. to noon; all others may register after noon. Groups fill up quickly. 20 W. Duarte Road, Arcadia.

Sunday, March 6, 2005

Family Fun Day: Rancho Santa Ana Botanic Garden 11 a.m. to 3 p.m. Join with your family and celebrate Arbor Day at the gardens with fun nature events, crafts and garden walks. Tickets and information: 909-625-8767 x251. 1500 N. College Ave., Claremont.

Monday, March 7, 2005

Kite Workshop: Lamanda Park Branch Library 4 p.m. Soar into the library and make a simple kite of your own that actually flies. All materials provided. Workshop also being held March 9 at Allendale branch; March 10 at Hastings branch and Santa Catalina branch and March 16 at La Pintoresca branch. 140 S. Altadena Dr., Pasadena.

Tuesday, March 8, 2005

Open House: MOMS Club of Pasadena-North 10 a.m. Support group for stay-at-home moms hosts its annual Open House. In addition to general information, there will be special musical activities for the kids and displays from the club's interest groups and playgroups. Representatives from Carol Liu’s office will be on hand to offer Child Identification Cards. Information: 626-580-8514 or email: membershipnorth@pasadenamomsclub.com. Visitors and children welcome; limited parking so please park on the street. Group has no religious affiliation. Trinity Lutheran Church, 997 E. Walnut St., Pasadena.

St. Patrick’s Day Special: Linda Vista Branch Library 4 p.m. Who was Saint Patrick anyhow? Hear a story and try a bit of Celtic art. Program for school-aged children. 1281 Bryant St., Pasadena.

Thursday, March 10, 2005

Journey Through America's Music: Monrovia Public Library 3:45 p.m. Craig Newton presents interactive performance takes children quickly through the history of America by using songs popular at various times. Newton plays a variety of instruments such as banjo, guitar, fiddle and trombone. Program is approximately 45 minutes long; geared to ages 5 and up. Limited seating; arrive early. 321 S. Myrtle Ave., Monrovia.

Friday, March 11, 2005

Spellman Magic Show: McKinley School 6-9 p.m. Bring a blanket and your sense of adventure for a professional magic show under the stars. Live animals, special effects and more than a dozen illusions will entertain young and old, rain or shine (show moves indoors in event of rain). Advance tickets: $10 adults, $7.50 children, contact Teresa Chandradibya, 626-354-9477. Tickets may be purchased at the door. Optional boxed dinners available for $6.50 per person. Soccer field, 325 S. Oak Knoll Ave., Pasadena.

School Day Performance: Caltech 10 a.m. Aquila Theatre Company performs a full-length production of "The Invisible Man" in one-hour show designed for school groups, grades 6 through 12. $5. Information: 626-395-6059. Beckman Auditorium, 332 S. Michigan Ave., Pasadena.

"Invisible Man" Caltech 8 p.m. This brand new stage version of H.G. Wells's 1897 novel is set in Victorian London and rural southern England. It tells the story of a talented young English scientist named Griffin who makes a startling discovery. Tickets: $22, 18, 14 adults; $10 youth. Beckman Auditorium, 332 S. Michigan Ave., Pasadena.

Saturday, March 12, 2005

St. Paddy's Party: Monrovia Public Library 11 a.m. and 2 p.m. Celebrate St. Patrick’s Day by telling Irish tales and wearing lots of green! Join us for an hour of stories, songs, a film and a holiday craft. Geared for ages 5 through 5th grade. 321 S. Myrtle Ave., Monrovia.

Los Angeles Environmental Education Fair, Los Angeles County Arboretum 9 a.m. to 4 p.m. More than 60 organizations that teach and promote environmental science will be represented at this fair, which will feature interactive displays and events, live animal exhibits, an ecological treasure hunt and and entertainment. Admission: $7 adults; $5 students/seniors; $2.50 children ages 5-12; free under five. 301 N. Baldwin Ave., Arcadia.

Wild Weather: Caltech 2 p.m. Program and film explore the journey the winds take from their birth at the Equator to the North Pole, where we witness the space rainbow better known as aurora borealis. Effects of hurricanes and tornados are detailed. Post-screening discussion will be led by Shane Murphy, of Caltech's Division of Chemistry and Chemical Engineering. Ages 6 and up. $5. Beckman Auditorium, 332 S. Michigan Ave., Pasadena.

Saturday Craft: Lakeshore Learning Store 11 a.m. to 3 p.m. St. Patrick’s Day Hat. Kids will love wearing this playful holiday hat. We’ll use shamrocks, spangles & sequins to make it. Ages 3 and up. 3848 E. Foothill Blvd., Pasadena.

Monday, March 14, 2005

St. Patrick’s Day Story Time San Rafael Branch Library 3:30 p.m. We’ll be having a lively time at this celebration of Irish stories and fun. Children of all ages welcome - be sure and wear green. 1240 Nithsdale Road, Pasadena.

Tuesday, March 15, 2005

Teddy Bears Picnic: Hill Avenue Branch Library 11 a.m. Please bring your favorite teddy bear to our story time all about bears. What do teddy bears eat at their yearly picnic? Why not come and see. Refreshments for a perfect picnic will be served. 55 S. Hill Ave., Pasadena.

Wednesday, March 16, 2005

Author Event: Vroman's Bookstore 1 p.m. When Ophie Peeler moves to a new school in Oregon, she finds that life is definitely different. In her bid to be popular will Ophie leave behind the one girl who had befriended her in favor of the popular crowd? Author Kathleen O’Dell reads from and signs "Ophie Out of Oz." 695 E. Colorado Blvd., Pasadena.

Thursday, March 17, 2005

Children With Disabilities: Mothers & More Pasadena 7 p.m. Guest speaker offers tips for navigating the system to support group for moms. Visitors welcome; no children over 6 months. Polytechnic School, Boswell Library, between Cornell & Arden on Wilson Ave., Pasadena.

St. Patrick’ Day Special: Arcadia Public Library 7 p.m. Join us for an evening of fun stories and a craft in celebration of St. Patrick’s Day. No registration needed, but program is limited to 75. 20 W. Duarte Road, Arcadia.

Saturday, March 19, 2005

Olivia Dress-Up Day: Vroman's Bookstore 10:30 a.m. Join us after storytime for an opportunity to dress up in all of Olivia's favorite things. This pig has it all - you'll love to play with her feather boas, tiaras, ringmaster's coat, ballgown and more. 695 E. Colorado Blvd., Pasadena.

Saturday Series for Kids: Haugh Performing Arts Center 1:30 and 3:30 p.m. "The Ugly Duckling," based on the story by Hans Christian Anderson, will be presented in this play series that is designed especially to introduce children to the theater. Ages 5 and up. Tickets: $6. Box office: 626-963-9411. Citrus College, 1000 W. Foothill Blvd., Glendora.

Saturday Craft: Lakeshore Learning Store 11 a.m. to 3 p.m. Kids can create a vibrant windsock to hang anywhere, using fun craft materials like bug stampers, pipe stems and tissue paper. Ages 3 and up. 3848 E. Foothill Blvd., Pasadena.

Egg-Celebration: City of West Covina 9 a.m. to 2 p.m. Craft fair, egg hunts, crafts, food, entertainment, photos with the Easter Bunny and more. Bring your own basket for egg hunting. Pancake breakfast will be held before the event from 8 to 11 a.m., $3. West Covina City Hall, 1444 W. Garvey Ave., West Covina.

Meet Pablo Picasso: Norton Simon Museum 1 p.m. Learn why Pablo Picasso is considered one of the most creative artists of the 20th century in this guided tour for children and families followed by a related art activity. Free with museum admission of $8 adults; children under 18 free. 411 W. Colorado Blvd., Pasadena.

Register Early

Barks and Books: Pasadena Humane Society Be a special reading buddy to a real live dog! Elementary school-aged children can read a book about dogs to a gentle dog. This program is held several times a month; check website for times and reservations. Various Pasdena branch libraries.

Cooking With Kids: Los Angeles County Arboretum Workshop on Wednesday, April 13, from 4-6 p.m. is for children ages 8 to 10. Alexandra Poer Sheridan, mother, chef and caterer, teaches kids to prepare Sunday breakfast for their families. Starting with a walk through the kitchen garden to pick fresh ingredients, kids will learn to make omelettes, muffins, fruit skewers and pancakes with initials on them. $25. Space limited. Register: 626-821-4623. 301 N. Baldwin Ave., Arcadia.

Junior Master Gardeners: Huntington Library "Jam Session!" workshop will be held on Saturday, March 26, from 9 a.m. to noon. Young gardeners will learn how to make jams and preserve fresh fruit for flavor that last lasts long after the season has passed. Ages 8 - 11. $35. Registration mandatory: 626-405-3586. 1151 Oxford Road, San Marino.

Family Hike: Children's Nature Institute Walk designed especially for families with young children will be held at 10 a.m. on Tuesday, March 22. Led by Bette Simons. Reservations mandatory: 310-998-1151. Eaton Canyon, 1750 N. Altadena Dr., Pasadena.

Arbor Day Art Class: South Pasadena Public Library "Drawing and Painting Trees" is a class presented by Vivian Flynn of the Chouinard Foundation School of Art for children ages 7 and up. Class will be held March 12 from 10 to 11:30 a.m. Reservations must be made by March 1 at the library or by calling 626-403-7358. 1100 Oxley St., South Pasadena.

Wild About Watercolors: Huntington Library Workshop on Saturday, April 9 from 9 to 11:30 a.m. teaches youngsters to dabble in the art of watercolor, drawing inspiration from current watercolor exhibition. Ages 7 - 12. $15. Registration mandatory: 626-405-2128. 1151 Oxford Road, San Marino.

Family Hike: Children's Nature Institute Walk designed especially for families with young children will be held at 10 a.m., Thursday, April 28. Led by Bette Simons. Reservations mandatory: 310-998-1151. Eaton Canyon, 1750 N. Altadena Dr., Pasadena.

L.A. Science Festival: Caltech Sally Ride, America's first woman astronaut, hosts the annual Los Angeles Science Festival on Saturday, March 19, at 11 a.m. This festival is for girls grades 5 through 8, parents and educators. Keynote speeches will be given by Ride and L.A. Times science columnist K.C. Cole. Also hands-on creative workshops in topics from biology to aerospace engineering, a special adult track for parents and teachers and a festive street fair full of fun, science exhibits, food, music and a raffle. Tickets include snack and lunch: $18 advance; $25 at the door. Register early online for limited-space workshops: www.SallyRideFestivals.com or call 800-561-5161. Beckman Auditorium, 332 S. Michigan Ave., Pasadena.

Junior Master Gardeners: Huntington Library Workshop on "Green-Haired Plant Pets" will be held Saturday, April 9 from 9 a.m. to noon. For a creative twist on lawn planting and care, kids will cultivate their own grass-covered "pets" in this morning workshop. Ages 8 - 11. $35. Registration mandatory: 626-405-3586. 1151 Oxford Road, San Marino.

Monopoly Tournament: La Pintoresca Branch Library Do you love to play Monopoly? Challenge your friends to a round at our tournament, on Thursday, March 24 at 3:30 p.m. There will be prizes awarded for the first, second and third place winners. For ages 10 and up. Reservations: 626-744-7268. 1355 N. Raymond Ave., Pasadena.

Children’s Workshop: Huntington Library "Musical Garden" workshop will be led by Martin Espino on Saturday, March 19, from 9 to 11:30 a.m. Nature’s symphony will fill the air as youngsters create musical instruments from bamboo and learn to play them. Ages 7-12. $15. Registration mandatory: 626-405-2128. 1151 Oxford Road, San Marino.

Junior Master Gardeners: Huntington Library Workshop on apples will be held Saturday, March 12 from 9 a.m. to noon. It takes kids from Johnny Appleseed to the grocery store produce bin to teach the changing taste of America ’s favorite fruit. Ages 8-11. $35. Registration mandatory: 626-405-3586. 1151 Oxford Road, San Marino.

Wonderful Wednesday: Alhambra Public Library Actress Janeece Flint portrays the story of Deborah Sampson, a real-life woman who disguised herself as a man and enlisted in the Continental Army during the Civil War. Twice wounded in battle, Deborah witnessed the deaths of her friends and even performed surgery on herself to remove a musket ball. Reservations required: 626-570-3215. 410 W. Main St., Alhambra.

Through the Looking Glass: South Pasadena Public Library Creative writing class for ages 10 to 14 will include discussions designed to help students write about the world in which they live. Students will improve their writing skills using library and school resources as well as through reading, seeing and listening to examples of stories, music, and art. Class will be held on Saturday afternoons, April 2 through May 21. Register in the children’s department or call 626-403-7358. 1100 Oxley St., South Pasadena.

Arbor Day: South Pasadena Public Library Vivian Flynn of Chouinard Foundation School of Art will instruct children and teens on drawing and painting trees in a workshop to be held March 12 from 10 to 11:30 a.m. Flynn will help participants develop an appreciation for the variety of trees in South Pasadena, a Tree City, by training them to study and paint trees. Ages 8 to 12. Space limited; register in the children’s department or call 626-403-7358. 1100 Oxley St., South Pasadena.

Continuing Activities

Montrose Harvest Market: Weekly farmer's market includes giant slide, obstacle course bouncer and 25-foot portable rock climbing wall. Sundays, 9 a.m. to 2 p.m. Information: 818-957-3809. Montrose Shopping Park, Honolulu Ave. and Ocean View Blvd, Montrose.

Monrovia Public Library "Time for Twos" is an introductory storytime for toddlers and their parents held Tuesdays and Fridays, 10:45 to 11:15 a.m. Activities include stories, songs, flannel tales and a small creative project. "Munchkin Storytime" is offered on Wednesdays and Thursdays, 10:45 to 11:30 a.m. for children 3-5. The half-hour program includes stories, songs, flannel tales and incentive stickers. 321 S. Myrtle Ave., Monrovia.

Sierra Madre Public Library: Two Preschool story hours are held each week in the Children's Room. Mondays at 10 a.m., and Wednesdays at 7 p.m. Cathy Ryne, children's librarian, tells stories, sings songs, and organizes craft projects. 626-355-7186. 440 W. Sierra Madre Blvd., Sierra Madre.

Excellence in Education Home school park day; bring lunch, toys, games, sports equipment. Mondays at noon. Eisenhower Park, Colorado Blvd at Second St., Arcadia..

Monrovia Reads: Hour-long story times include crafts, stories, songs and fingerplay. Ages 0-5 with parents or caretakers. Tuesdays 10 a.m., All Nations Church, 1948 S. Peck Road; Thursdays 10 a.m., Boys and Girls Club, 600 S. Shamrock Ave., Monrovia.

MOMS Club of Pasadena-North Support group for stay-at-home moms meets regularly for all-member meetings, speakers, interest groups, playdates and much more. Serving Pasadena (north of 210 fwy) and Altadena. For more information please e-mail: membershipnorth@pasadenamomsclub.com .

MOMS Club of LaVerne Support group meets regularly for play dates, park days, storytimes, coffees and field trips. Various locations; check online calendar for dates, times. Information: momsclublvsd@yahoo.com .

Jungle Gym Rock Climbing: Toddler and children's climbing classes, homeschool groups, competitive climbing and winter adventure camp offered at gym designed for kids 14 months to 14 years. Birthday parties and family nights also available. Information: 626-446-5014. 305 N. Santa Anita Blvd., Arcadia.

Adventuring Preschool Playgroup: We are moms of preschoolers in the San Gabriel Valley, exploring different free museums, parks and taking field trips together. We meet Tuesdays from 9:30 a.m. to 12:30 p.m. Call Michelle for information: 626-335-3042 or email: butlig@integrity.com .

Mt. San Antonio College International marketplace is held every Sunday from 8 a.m. to 3:30 p.m., featuring arts and crafts, antiques and certified farmer's market. Parking and admission is free. Stadium parking lot, off Temple Avenue, just west of Cal Poly.

Huntington Hospital: Perinatal Health Education department offers ongoing classes and support groups for new moms, including breastfeeding Thursdays 10 to 11:30 a.m.; Mommy & Me Tuesdays 9:30 to 11:30 a.m.; Postnatal Fitness Mondays, Wednesdays and Fridays, 5:45 to 6 p.m.; Baby & Me; infant care; and infant/child CPR. Some classes involve fees. Information and registration: 626-397-8768. .

Monrovia Family Festival: 5 to 9 p.m. Fridays. Games, food, rides, shopping and farmer's market. Myrtle Ave south of Foothill Blvd, Monrovia.

MOMS Club of Covina & West Covina Support group meets reularly for playdates, walking groups, parties for stay-at-home moms or part-time working moms seeking day time activities for children of all ages. Serves mothers in Covina, West Covina, Azusa and Irwindale. New member meetings held at 10:30 a.m. on the last Tuesday of every month. Information: email JillVidal@hotmail.com Covina Library, 234 N. Second Ave., Covina.

Vroman's Book Store: 10 a.m. Wednesdays and Saturdays. Storytime with Mr. Steve features contemporary and classic tales read aloud. Ages 2 to 8. 695 E. Colorado Blvd., Pasadena.

Eaton Canyon Nature Center Family nature walk held every Saturday morning, weather permitting, 9 to 11 a.m. Walking shoes, sunscreen, water, hats are recommended for this guided walk geared toward families with small children. Meet in front of the building. 626-398-5420. 1750 N. Altadena Dr., Pasadena.

Pasadena Central Library and its branches offer 15 storytimes each week, for infants through age 8. All programs are free, some require pre-registration. Check website for schedules. .

Pasadena Central Library: Short preschool videos shown every Friday at 10 a.m. in the Donald R. Wright Auditorium. Central Library, 285 E. Walnut St., Pasadena.

The Huntington Library Nature activities are scheduled on Saturdays from 1:30 to 3:30 p.m. Kids of all ages can explore the world of nature at hands-on plant discovery carts located at the Lily Ponds, Desert Garden and Japanese Garden. Older kids can examine plant cross-sections under a microscope, learn how plants and animals use camouflage, compare soil and water samples, or look for local wildlife using a field guide. Younger children can make leaf rubbings, examine seed pods, create origami, or experience "a bug’s life" through insect puppet play. On the first Saturday of each month, nature crafts are also offered near the entrance pavilion. No reservations required; free with museum admission. $15 adults, $12 seniors (65+), $10 students (ages 12-18 or with student I.D.), $6 for youth (ages 5-11), free for children under 5. Information: 626-405-2100. 1151 Oxford Road, San Marino.

Glendora Public Library PJ family story time at 7 p.m. each Wednesday offers a half hour of magical stories, songs and fingerplays. A great alternative to TV! Information: 626-852-4891. Children's Room, 140 S. Glendora Ave., Glendora.

South Pasadena Public Library: Family Storytime Tuesdays 7:30 to 8 p.m.; Pajama Storytime: For ages 3-5, Wednesdays 7 to 7:30 p.m.; Preschool Storytime: For ages 3-5, Thursdays 10:30 to 11 a.m.; Toddler Storytimes: For ages 1-2, Fridays 10:30 to 10:50 a.m.; For ages 2-3 Fridays 11 to 11:20 a.m. Grandparents Read-Aloud: Mondays, Tuesdays and Thursdays, 3 to 5 p.m. Register at 626-403-7358. 1100 Oxley St., South Pasadena.

Altadena Public Library: Preschool storytime Wednesdays 11 a.m. 626-798-0833. 600 E. Mariposa Ave., Altadena.

San Marino Public Library: Weekly preschool story time for 3- to 5-year-olds offered on Thursdays at 11:30 a.m. and 1:30 p.m.; Tuesdays at 3:30 for 5- to 8-year-olds. Call 626-300-0777 to register. 1890 Huntington Dr., San Marino.

Mrs. Nelson's Storytimes: Preschool storytime, for ages 2-5 and parents, Tuesdays 10 a.m. PJ Storytime Fridays at 6 p.m. All ages welcome Saturdays at 11 a.m. Register: 909-599-4558. 1030 Bonita Ave., La Verne.

San Dimas Public Library: Preschool story time is held every Friday at 11 a.m. 145 N. Walnut Ave., San Dimas.

Terrific Twosomes Mothers of Multiples: San Gabriel Valley-based, non-profit support organization exists as a forum for parents of twins, triplets, quadruplets and higher multipes to come together to exchange everything from advice to outgrown baby clothing! We meet on the second Tuesday evening of each month; see website for details on meeting place and time. .

Healthy Eating Lifestyle Program: Ongoing, five-session nutritional and exercise workshop is designed to help families with kids who are at risk for being overweight. Classes include smart shopping tips, family meal planning advice, creating simple recipes, games, parties and activities for kids aged 5 to 12 and their entire families. Sessions held on Saturdays from 10 a.m. to noon, and Monday and Tuesday nights from 6 to 8 p.m. Families must register and complete medical screening in order to attend. Contact health educator Kam Miller at 626-397-3660 or via email: healthy.eating@huntingtonhospital.com Huntington Hospital, 100 W. California Blvd., Pasadena.

The Bunny Museum: See the world's largest collection of bunnies and bunny artifacts, with more than 20,000 items on display. Private home is open for tours by appointment every day of the year. No appointment needed on most holidays. Call for schedule: 626-798-8848. 1933 Jefferson Dr., Pasadena.

MOMS Club of San Dimas: Support group meets regularly for play dates, park days, storytimes, coffees and field trips. Various locations; check online calendar for dates, times. Information: sandimasmomsclub@yahoo.com .

Blue Chair Children's Books Toddler storytime Tuesdays at 11 a.m.; afterschool storytime Thursdays, 3:30 p.m.; special events every Friday night, check website for details. 177 N. Glendora Ave., Glendora.

Gymboree: Play, music and art classes offered on an ongoing basis. Free trial classes for new families. Information on classes: 626-445-1122; parties: 626-445-5161. 518 W. Huntington Dr., Monrovia.

Parents Without Partners Covina Valley chapter of single-parent group holds orientation meeting and dance on the second Friday of each month, 7:30 p.m. to midnight. Call for information and location: 626-294-3211. .

Sierra Madre Moms Club Support group for mothers and their kids meets weekly and sponsors play groups and park dates. Serves residents of Sierra Madre, Monrovia, Arcadia, Temple City and Duarte. Information: email Paulimorin@earthlink.net .

Hurst Ranch: Living history ranch is open to the public on the second Saturday of each month from 9 a.m. to 1 p.m. Information: 626-813-0116. 1227 S. Orange Ave., West Covina.

MOMS Club of Pasadena Support group for stay-at-home moms meets regularly for all-member meetings, speakers, interest groups, playdates and much more. Serving Pasadena, South Pasadena, San Marino and Ahambra. For more information please e-mail: membershipvp@pasadenamomsclub.com .

Pacific Theatres Monday Mom Movies are first-run film screenings specifically for mothers with babies. Check website for schedule. Paseo 14, Paseo Colorado, Pasadena.

West Covina Library: Homework help is offered on a walk-in basis, free of charge, Monday through Thursday from 3:30 to 7:30 p.m. Helpers assist youngsters in grades 1 through 8 with homework questions, homework strategies and study skills. Help is available in all subjects, including math. Tutoring is available on Saturdays by appointments. Storytimes are held Wednesdays at 6:30 p.m. for the whole family and on Fridays at 10 a.m. for preschoolers. 1601 West Covina Parkway, West Covina.

Kidspace Children's Museum: Where else can kids dig, learn about fossils and the evolution of earthquakes, ride trikes and climb 40 feet into the air? Museum exhibits highlight the arts, sciences and humanities in a manner that promotes exploration, investigation and expression. Open 9:30 a.m. to 5 p.m. daily, closed Thanksgiving, Christmas, New Year's Day. Admission: $8 for adults and children; under 1 free. 480 N. Arroyo Blvd., Pasadena.

La Canada Farmer's Market: Held every Saturday from 9 a.m. to 1 p.m. Beulan Street at Foothill Boulevard., La Canada.

Kids Island Parenting classes, infant play area, arts and crafts, music and dance studios, open play times and children's parties are offered at this indoor center for children six months to six years. Call for information/admission prices: 626-447-8003. 1313 S. Baldwin Ave., Arcadia.

Follow The Rainbow: 3,000-square-foot indoor playground has things to climb on, bounce on, dig in and play with. A safe, fun environment for young children with quieter room for reading or board and card games provided for older children. Parents can play with their kids, stand back and guide them or sit and relax in view of all the action. Open 7 days, 10 a.m. to 5 p.m. Daily admission: $7, monthly $30, annual pass $105. Birthday parties start at $300. 626-794-0925. 2525 N. Lake Ave., Altadena.

Alhambra Farmer's Market: Certified Farmers' Market is held 8 a.m. to 5 p.m. every Sunday. Monterey Street, Alhambra.

Are you aware of a great event or venue that we're not listing? If so, please let us know so we can include it in the next Orange Cat. Email: karen@theorangecat.org.

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