May 5, 2006

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By Dorothy Reinhold,
Guest Columnist

Grab your cup o' joe or your pot of organic antioxidant green ginseng tea (or whatever gets you through the day), settle your computer glasses firmly on the bridge of your nose, and let's dish about birthday parties, shall we?

I'm a firm believer that any day with cake is automatically a good day. But I must say that I find children's birthday parties very trying. As Kathryn Hepburn did to Henry Fonda in "On Golden Pond," go ahead and call me "you old poop." I give you my full permission and I don't blame you. But listen to a few of my pet peeves and see if you don't agree with me:

Goodie bags: They're piles of cheap junk, one tiny plastic toy more flimsy and breakable than the next. Giving them is a fairly recent tradition that has to be stopped, and soon. Beginning with the preschool years, your child may go to 20 or more parties per year. Let's say that at each party, he gets a junk...er..."goodie" bag, and each bag has 10 items in it. That's 200 crummy, useless things underfoot, cluttering up your household. As the recipient parent, I dread goodie bags as much as my kids seem to crave them. One mom I know has a rule that the contents of the goodie bag may be played with for the rest of the day and as soon as junior goes

to bed, that stuff gets tossed, never to be discussed again. Harsh? I'll bet your child doesn't really play with those items longer than an hour or two. If you are the birthday parent, you dread the chore of buying all that stuff (different things for boys and for girls), packaging it up, labeling it and storing it. There are enough tasks attendant to hosting a birthday party for 15-30 kids without the additional time and expense of goodie bags. A pox on the first person who thought them up! (Don't get me started on the environmental implications of using precious oil and resources to manufacture junky plastic whatnots only to throw them into our overstuffed landfills...)

Are you convinced yet?

Here's a solution: If you feel you must send your guests home with a gift, buy each one useful or playful item. For my daughter's small (four girls) swimming birthday party last year, I gave each child a special $10 beach towel I'd purchased during a sale at Disney.com. It was something they could use all summer and it matched the party's swimming theme. If you're having more guests, choose something less expensive so as not to break the bank. One mom throwing a large party in my neighborhood gave each boy a $1 Hot Wheels car and each girl a $3 Kelly doll. I liked that solution because it was a single item and something she knew would be an all-purpose beloved gift.

My next problem is with invitations that don't specify whether a meal will be provided. Fellow parents, it is NOT obvious! We have been to many parties that begin at 1 or 1:30 p.m., only to be surprised when lunch is served at 2 p.m. If you feed your kids before the party (around 11:30 a.m., when they are ravenous), they are not going to sit still for another meal at 2 p.m. Nobody enjoys a party where the kids won't sit down to eat and are running around like maniacs. If all of us would just be clear on the invitations we send, this could be avoided.

Here's another thorny issue that could be cleared up with good communication: Parties for multiples. I know some moms who hate to be invited to parties of multiples because of the presumption they must buy multiple presents. To keep from feeling like a Scrooge, they buy three of the same gift, each in different colors. How awful! Can you imagine the children opening a virtual mountain of identical gifts? I say follow the lead of a mom in my neighborhood. She has a set of twin 8-year-old sons and a 6-year-old daughter, born in the same month. She often has a group party with a small cake for each child. She arranges for both boy- and girl-appropriate activities (whew, I'm exhausted already!), and she also has another brilliant maneuver: On the invitation, she makes it clear that my child is invited specifically by one of her children - the one whose class my kid is in. She also makes sure I know that she doesn't want three gifts, but that if we choose to give a gift we should get one only for the child who invited us. Stone-cold brilliant! Each birthday child invites the same number of guests, so ends up getting the same number of gifts as his or her siblings, and each gift is tailored to the recipient. I think that's a very clever solution that allows each child to feel special, but not swamp them with piles of stuff. And, it also releases the invitees' parents from feeling tapped out.

How do you feel about over-the-top, competitive, one-upsmanship parties? It's not enough for some parents to throw a party with a moon bounce and let the fun ensue. If a classmate had the moon bounce and a clown, they will keep upping the ante: moon bounce, clown and magician! I'll see your moon bounce, clown and magician and raise you a caricature artist! Oh yeah?? Well, I'll...uh...in truth, I don't play any part of that game. And if you're sliding down the slippery slope of competitive party-giving, please yank yourself back up before you hit bottom. Save your money for your child's college tuition, save your time so you're not so frantic and save your emotional energy for something more meaningful in your life.

Last, but not at all least, is the issue of RSVPing. You must RSVP when you get the invitation, no exceptions. A simple rule, but one that some people obviously cannot grasp. Karen's friend Stephanie has a complaint that many parents will recognize: "Why is it that parents cannot respect an invitation that requests the favor of a reply?" she asks. She sent out 25 invitations four weeks before her preschool son's birthday party, and one week before the party had heard from only four families - one who is a relative and the other who are good friends outside of school. Imagine her dismay (or perhaps terror) as she contemplated a party that would either be for eight (four kids and four adults) or for 50! How much food should she get? How many goody bags? (Well, none, if you agree with me, but ... .) Her solution was to stalk parents and plead with them to tell her if their child would be attending the party. Still, shortly before party time, she hadn't heard from about 10 families. Her preschool contacted some of those families, leaving Stephanie with about five children unaccounted for, and one mother who said she would call. (As far as we know, Stephanie's still waiting by the phone.) Maddening, right? It gets better: At the last minute, she got calls from two mothers who wanted to bring additional children with them, including one who wanted to bring three additional kids! She tried to explain that she didn't have goody bags for these extra children, but got the distinct vibe that these moms were offended.

Here's my coping strategy about RSVPing: The day the invitation arrives, I RSVP either yes or no, depending on what else is on the calendar. Then I mark that party on the calendar, add a note to my "to-do" list to get a present for that child, and tack the invitation up on the bulletin board. Done, and on to the rest of the day. This way, there's no rethinking, no putting it in the "to consider" pile and no letting it get lost in the torrent of paperwork that flows through every modern family home daily. It's easy on you and easy on your hosts.

Please, can we all agree to do the simple favor of a prompt RSVP? And please, don't bring uninvited children unless it's absolutely necessary (and then only if you get prior approval and don't expect a goody bag for them)? We are all nice people, in so many ways. I think we can live by the Golden Rule when it comes to birthday parties.

Ah... there now. I feel so much better! Thank you for listening to the way the world would work if I were in charge. Now excuse me while I scurry off to the kitchen to bake something. I have a hankering for cake.

Freelance writer Dorothy Reinhold can be reached at DReinhold@aol.com.

Dates and times subject to change; activities free unless noted; phone numbers provided if reservations are requested; please note age ranges on some activities. Also, see our special printable calendar, especially for readers of The Orange Cat.

Friday, May 5, 2006

Mini Iron Chef: Kidspace Children's Museum 12 p.m. and 1 p.m. May 5-6. Kids express culinary independence at this new Mini Iron Chef challenge inspired by Cinco de Mayo and the traditions of Mexico, guided by a chef from Wolfgang Puck Catering. Limited to 25 children — placeholder tickets will be first come, first serve and by request on the day of the event. For children ages 5 and above. Brookside Park, 480 N. Arroyo Blvd., Pasadena.

Capitol Steps: CalTech Beckman Auditorium 8 p.m. Troupe of former Congressional staffers returns to Caltech for the 16th straight year, bringing three hilarious performances that are sure to upset those right, left and center. Putting the "mock" in democracy, the Steps leave no issue untouched with their own special brand of satirical humor and scathing parody. Adults: $35, $31, $27; youth $10. Additional performances will be held Saturday, May 6, 8 p.m. and Sunday, May 7, 3:30 p.m. 332 S. Michigan Ave., Pasadena.

Saturday, May 6, 2006

Spicy Stories: Pasadena Central Library 10 a.m. - 10:30 a.m. Celebrate Cinco de Mayo at this special Family Storytime with a Latin flavor. 285 East Walnut Street, Pasadena.

Collage Shapes: Lakeshore Learning Store 11 a.m. - 3 p.m. Giant collages give kids a chance to use painters, feathers, and more to make unique decorative shapes. 3848 E. Foothill Blvd., Pasadena.

Family Festival: Mothers of Preschoolers 10 a.m. MOPS will be holding its fourth annual family festival. Activities include penny games, face painting, 25-cent games, pony rides, giant inflatable slide and obstacle course, In –N-Out lunch truck, bake sale, raffle and silent auction. In addition, there will be live music and the Sierra Madre Fire Department truck and CalTrans will be on-site. The annual Family Festival supports Lake Avenue Church MOPS by providing scholarships and childcare for women interested in membership. 611 E. Sierra Madre Boulvard.

Cherry Blossom: West Covina Civic Center 12 p.m. - 7 p.m. The annual Cherry Blossom Festival. 1444 W. Garvey Ave., West Covina.

Giant Collage: Lakeshore Learning Store 11 a.m. - 3 p.m. Giant collages give kids a chance to use paint, feathers, and more to make unique decorative shapes. 3848 E. Foothill Blvd., Pasadena.

Musical Circus: Pasadena Symphony 8:30 a.m. Perfomance by Prelude Strings, middle-school aged string ensemble. Ages 10 and under. Pasadena Civic Auditorium, 300 E. Green St., Pasadena.

Sunday, May 7, 2006

The Sisters Grimm Vromans Bookstore 3:30 p.m. Author Michael Buckley presents and signs his new book The Sisters Grimm. 695 E. Colorado Blvd., Pasadena.

Museums of the Arroyo: Five Local Museums 11 a.m. to 5 p.m. The 17th annual MOTA Day invites thepublic to tour five museums located along the celebrated Arroyo Seco in Los Angeles and Pasadena for music, storytelling, art, crafts and entertainment. MOTA Day museums are open for free tours and festivities are scheduled at each museum throughout the day. Information: 213-740-8687. 470 W Walnut St. Pasadena.

Monday, May 8, 2006

Pasadena Education Network: Pasadena Central Library 7 p.m. - 9 p.m. An opportunity to share thoughts on PEN's year to come and find out how to get involved. Plus, Kindergarten Coffee Talk: Advice from those who have been there. A PUSD kindergarten teacher talks about what parents can expect. Parents from this year's kindergarten class will share their experiences. Plus, choir students from Blair and a string quartet from PHS will perform. 285 East Walnut Street, Pasadena.

Police Storytime: Hastings Branch Library 7 p.m. - 8 p.m. During Pajama Storytime there will be a special Police Officer Storytime and visit from a real live Police Officer. 3325 E. Orange Grove Blvd., Pasadena.

Pen Pals Storytime: San Rafael Branch Library 3:30 p.m. - 4:30 p.m. It's National Postcard Week. Brighten someone's day by sending them something fun. Share silly stories, make a special postcard, and (just maybe) enjoy a visit by our own Jolly Postman. Materials and snacks provided — just bring addresses! For children ages 3 to 8. 1240 Nithsdale Road, Pasadena.

Making the Grade: Pasadena Education Network 7 p.m. Celebration of PEN's second birthday is followed by a "Kindergarten Coffee Talk," including what parents can expect for their kids entering Kindergarten. PEN is a non-profit organization dedicated to providing accurate information about Pasadena public schools to parents of preschool-aged children. Pasadena Central Library, 285 East Walnut Street, Pasadena.

Tuesday, May 9, 2006

Charlie Bone: Mrs. Nelson's Bookstore 10 a.m. - noon. Jenny Nimmo will sign Charlie Bone and the Hidden King, the 5th book in her popular Children of the Red King series. 1030 Bonita Ave., La Verne.

Wednesday, May 10, 2006

Mother's Day Crafts: Allendale Branch Library 3:30 p.m. - 4:30 p.m. Make a special gift for Mother's Day. All materials and snacks will be provided. 1130 S. Marengo Ave., Pasadena.

Saturday, May 13, 2006

Art for Mom: Kidspace Children's Museum On May 13-14, children can create a work of art as a gift for Mom. On Sunday, May 14, Kidspace will offer a garden setting for a family brunch with Mom. Wolfgang Puck Catering has created a special brunch basket, available for advance order, for Moms, Dads, and kids to enjoy. Brookside Park, 480 N. Arroyo Blvd., Pasadena.

Mother's Day Stories: Pasadena Central Library 10 a.m. - 10:30 a.m. Celebrate your mother's special day at this special family storytime for preschoolers ages 3-5. 285 East Walnut Street, Pasadena.

Mother's Day Frame: Lakeshore Learning Store 11 a.m. - 3 p.m. Children create a decorative frame to show Mom how special she is. 3848 E. Foothill Blvd., Pasadena.

Weird Nature: CalTech Beckman Auditorium 2 p.m. Barbara Kraatz Fortini, of Caltech's Biology Department, will introduce the film "Weird Nature" and lead a post-screening discussion. $5 332 S. Michigan Ave., Pasadena.

Kids Club Concert: University of La Verne 10 a.m. Musical event especially designed for youth audiences features the university's West African Drum Ensemble. Founders Auditorium, 1950 Third St., La Verne.

Carnival in the Park: Sierra Madre Community Nursery School 10 a.m. to 4 p.m. Fun for the whole family! Games, music, food, crafts, pony rides, petting zoo, ball pit, face painting, confetti eggs, toddler area, handmade items and plants for sale. Ages 2-12. Information: 626-355-1655. Sierra Vista Park, 701 E. Sierra Madre Bl., Sierra Madre.

School Carnival: K.L. Carver Elementary School 10 a.m. to 3 p.m. Have a Silly String showdown at Dodge City. Scale a giant climbing wall. Play at dozens of exciting game booths. Enjoy the international food court and raffles. Admission free; game tickets .50 cents. Huntington Drive at San Gabriel Boulevard, San Marino.

Monday, May 15, 2006

Literacy Leak: Lamanda Park Branch Library 3:30 p.m. - 4:30 p.m. Do you or your family suffer from that irritating leak of literacy caused by excessive TV time? See the play, The Swashbuckling Adventures of Jamie in the World of Red, the Reading Pirate explores how Jamie (the kid), struggles with too-much TV. (Also at Hastings Branch Library today from 7-8 p.m., 3325 E. Orange Grove Blvd., Pasadena.) Lamanda Park Library is at 140 S. Altadena Dr., Pasadena.

Tuesday, May 16, 2006

True Story of Three Little Pigs: La Pintoresca Branch Library 4 p.m. - 5 p.m. See a live production of the True Story of the Three Little Pigs and decide for yourself – who's guilty and who's innocent. Will you believe three little pigs or one hairy wolf? 1355 N. Raymond Ave., Pasdena.

Reading Pirate: Santa Catalina Library 3 p.m. See the play, The Swashbuckling Adventures of Jamie in the World of Red, the Reading Pirate explores how Jamie (the kid), struggles with too-much TV. 999 E. Washington Blvd., Pasadena.

Author Event: Vromans Bookstore 7 p.m. Eric Schlosser discusses and signs "Chew On This: Everything You Don't Want to Know About Fast Food." Schlosser, author of "Fast Food Nation," has written this follow-up for young readers that uncovers surprising facts about what goes into a kids' meal, from the toys to the chicken "nuggets." 695 E. Colorado Blvd., Pasadena.

Thursday, May 18, 2006

Ovations: Blair IB Magnet School 7:30 p.m. High school performance choir will perform a Broadway-style musical revue featuring songs from: "Oklahoma," "Anything Goes," "A Chorus Line," "Pippin" and "Footloose," with a tribute to the 70's disco era. Tickets: $10; contact 626-441-2201 x116 or email dtmdata@aol.com. Performances also held Friday, May 19, 7:30 p.m.; Saturday, May 20, 2 p.m. and 7 p.m. Pasadena City College, Sexson Auditorium, 1570 E. Colorado Blvd., Pasadena.

Teen Book Chat: Monrovia Public Library 3:45 p.m. Teenage book lovers are invited to attend a Teen Book Chat. Teens can bring 2-3 favorite books to share with the group. Librarian Shawn Thrasher will be sharing some new titles for teens, as well as some of his favorites. Snacks will be served. 321 S. Myrtle ave., Monrovia.

Open Mike Night: Mothers and More Pasadena 7 p.m. Join us for a look into our hearts, our souls ... our laundry baskets as we read from our own (or others') literary musings on motherhood. A great situation in which to try your hand at self-expression; all writing forms welcome. Social event to follow. Adults only. Wild Oats Natural Marketplace, upstairs conference room, 603 South Lake Ave., Pasadena..

Saturday, May 20, 2006

Flea Market: Kidspace Children's Museum 11 a.m. - 3 p.m. Children can shop, sell, or barter for treasures and talents at the Kidspace Flea Market. Recycle gently used toys and clothes that you have outgrown and pick up some "new" things, or share a talent such as face painting or a puppet show. See the variety show at 1 p.m. Recommended ages for participation as a vendor or a performer are 4-12. Brookside Park, 480 N. Arroyo Blvd., Pasadena.

PEN: Pasadena Central Library 2:30 p.m. - 6 p.m. Pasadena Education Network. Learn about the Pasadena Public Schools from parents who have children in the district. 285 East Walnut Street, Pasadena.

Tambourine: Lakeshore Learning Store 11 a.m. - 3 p.m. Children can make fun rhythms with a tambourine they create and decorate themselves. 3848 E. Foothill Blvd., Pasadena.

Open House: Jet Propulsion Laboratory 9 a.m. to 5 p.m. Celebrate JPL's accomplishments with exhibits and demonstrations about the laboratory's ongoing research and space exploration. Food and beverages will be available, along with space souvenirs and NASA and JPL merchandise. No backpacks or ice chests are allowed, with the exception of small purses and diaper bags. Visitors, vehicles and personal belongings are subject to inspection. Also held Sunday, May 21. 4800 Oak Grove Dr., Pasadena.

Family Day: Norton Simon Museum 1 p.m. Catch a glimpse of a bug or two in paintings by the masters, then create your own fabulous creature in this program for children and families. Free with admission. 411 W. Colorado Blvd., Pasadena.

Register Early

Mother's Day Weekend: Descanso Gardens Special Mother's Day brunches from 9 a.m. to 1:30 p.m. Saturday May 13 and Sunday May 14 will allow families to give thousands of flowers to their favorite women. Visitors also can stop by the International Geranium Society's show and buy plants. Brunch prices are $42 for adults; $20 for children 4 to 12 and free for children 3 and younger. Advance reservations required by Monday May 8: 818-790-3663. 1418 Descanso Dr, La Canada Flintridge.

The Rose of the Rancho: Pasadena Playhouse Pasadena Playhouse's Theatre for Families series invites families to attend the final production of the season, being held on May 13 and 20 at 11 a.m. Ages 8 and up. Tickets $5, children and adults. 626-356-PLAY. 39 S. El Molino Ave., Pasadena.

Young Writers & Artists Camp: Cal State Los Angeles A three-week summer program, designed for young writers and artists, will be held July 10-27 from Monday through Thursday, 9-12:30. The program is conducted under the direction of distinguished university faculty members and a staff of classroom writing teachers. For grades 2 through high school; $260. Information and registration: Cathy Morales, 323-343-5901 or email Dr. Carolyn Frank at carolcsula@aol.com. 5151 State University Dr., Los Angeles.

Pasadena Day Jams: Pasadena Music Camp Rock music summer camp for beginners and experienced musicians, ages 9-15, will run July 31-Aug. 4 and Aug. 7-11. Learn guitar, bass, drums, keyboards and vocals from professional musicians and teachers in a friendly and creative environment. Information: 818-442-9294. New Horizon School, 651 N. Orange Grove Blvd., Pasadena.

Family Sleepover Huntington Library 6 p.m. Saturday, May 27, to 9:30 a.m. Sunday, May 28. Unravel the mystery of Henry Huntington's wife, Arabella. Dinner and a light breakfast are included. Ages 7 and up. One parent or guardian required for every two children. $55. Registration: 626-405-2128 1151 Oxford Road, San Marino.

Science Film: CalTech Beckman Auditorium Film narrator Sam Neill explores the strange and terrifying world of the universe's ultimate monster: The black hole. At 10 a.m. on May 19, Megan Eckart, of Caltech's physics department will introduce the film and lead a post-screeing discussion. Tickets required. Reservations: 626-395-6059. 332 S. Michigan Ave., Pasadena.

Childrens Workshop: Huntington Library 9 -11:30 a.m. Children will work with artist Diana Coco-Russell on May 20 to create watercolor illustrations. Ages 7 and up, with accompanying adult. $25. Registration: 626-405-2128. 1151 Oxford Road, San Marino.

Super Sized Pumpkin: Huntington Library Join giant-pumpkin grower and U.C. Cooperative Extension master gardener Stuart Shim on Saturday, May 13, from 10:30 to 11:30 a.m. for a look at the fascinating world of super-sized squashes. Take home seeds to grow one of your own to harvest next fall. Ages 5 to 12, with accompanying adult. Adult: $15, child $10. Registration 626-405-2128. 1151 Oxford Road, San Marino.

Continuing Activities

Sunday

Montrose Harvest Market: Weekly farmer's market includes giant slide, obstacle course bouncer and 25-foot portable rock climbing wall. Sundays, 9 a.m. to 2 p.m. Information: 818-957-3809. Montrose Shopping Park, Honolulu Ave. and Ocean View Blvd, Montrose.

Alhambra Farmer's Market: Certified Farmers' Market is held 8 a.m. to 5 p.m. every Sunday. Monterey Street, Alhambra.

L.A. County Arboretum: Arboretum Bookworms, for ages 3-8, meets on the third Sunday of every month from 2-3 p.m. Children explore the arboretum and its library, enjoy plant and nature tales and make and take crafts. Meet at the main entrance. Free with admission of $7 adults; $2.50 children 5-12; free children 4 and under. Information: 626-821-4623. 301 N. Baldwin Ave., Arcadia.

Hill Avenue Branch Library: 10 a.m. - noon. This Spanish playgroup meets every Sunday and provides Spanish literacy for Spanish-speaking children. 55 S. Hill Ave., Pasadena.

Monday

Allendale Branch Library: Family videos, suitable for school-age children, are shown on Mondays from 2 to 3:30 p.m. 1130 S. Marengo Ave., Pasadena.

Victory Park Community Center: "Single Mommy and Me" group meets on Mondays from 10 to 11 a.m. for fun and friendship. For information, email founder Dianne Duncan: webeduncans@charter.net. 2575 Paloma St., Pasadena.

Tuesday

MOMS Club of Covina & West Covina Support group meets regularly for playdates, walking groups, parties for stay-at-home moms or part-time working moms seeking daytime activities for children of all ages. Serves mothers in Covina, West Covina. New member meetings held at 10:30 a.m. on the last Tuesday of every month. Information: email admin@momsclubcovina.com. Our club has no religious affiliations. Saint Louise de Marllac Catholic Church, at Covina Blvd. and Bonnie Cove, Covina.

Terrific Twosomes Mothers of Multiples: San Gabriel Valley-based, non-profit support organization exists as a forum for parents of twins, triplets, quadruplets and higher multipes to come together to exchange everything from advice to outgrown baby clothing! We meet on the second Tuesday evening of each month; see website for details on meeting place and time. .

Sierra Madre Moms Club Support group for mothers and their kids meets every fourth Tuesday from noon to 1:30 p.m., all welcome. The group also sponsors play groups and park dates. Serves residents of Sierra Madre, Monrovia, Arcadia, Temple City and Duarte. Information: email momsclubofsierramadre@yahoo.com. Sierra Madre Community Center, 611 E. Sierra Madre Blvd., Sierra Madre.

Wednesday

Vroman's Book Store: 10 a.m. Wednesdays and Saturdays. Storytime with Mr. Steve features contemporary and classic tales read aloud. Ages 2 to 8. 695 E. Colorado Blvd., Pasadena.

Alhambra Public Library Preschool Story Time 10:30 a.m. Wednesdays. Featuring stories, finger plays, songs and puppets. For kids, ages 3 to 5. Then, at 7 p.m., Pajama Story Time, for ages 3 to 10. Stories, finger plays, songs, films and crafts. 410 W.Main Street, Alhambra.

MOMS Club of Azusa: Meetings held monthly are open to all stay-at-home moms from Azusa. Children welcome at meetings, which are held on the last Wednesday of every month 11 a.m. Information: MOMSCLUB@aol.com or Summerlh@earthlink.net. Azusa City Library, auditorium, 729 N. Dalton Ave., Azusa.

Thursday

Villa Parke Community Center Library 4:30 p.m. Family films, rated G and PG, are shown on Thursdays. 363 E. Villa Street, Pasadena.

Mothers and More Pasadena: Support group meets regularly for moms-only coffees and lunches focused on career planning, transitions to paid work and challenges or opportunities with current employment. Chapter meetings occur first and third Thursdays of the month at 7:30 p.m. and are open to visitors. Group also sponsors Moms' Nights Out, book club and playgroups. Information: mothersandmore@onebox.com, or 866-206-9068, x3921. Polytechnic School, Boswell Library, 1030 E. California Blvd, Pasadena.

Friday

Villa Parke Community Center Library 4:30 p.m. - 5:30 p.m. Fridays. Board Games are placed out on tables for everyone to play with. For all ages. 363 E. Villa Street, Pasadena.

Fibromyalgia Support Group: A free support-and-information group for fibromyalgia sufferers and their families meets every third Friday of the month, 5-6:30 p.m. Reservations required. The group facilitator, Charles Yarborough, is a licensed acupuncturist specializing in pain syndromes. Information: 626-319-8725. 1028 N. Lake Ave. Suite 108 Pasadena.

Parents Without Partners Covina Valley chapter of single-parent group holds orientation meeting and dance on the second Friday of each month, 7:30 p.m. to midnight. Call for information and location: 626-294-3211. .

Pasadena Central Library 10 a.m. - 10:30 a.m. Preschool films. A 30-minute program with picture book stories on the big screen for ages 3-5. Weekly on Friday. 285 East Walnut Street, Pasadena.

Pasadena Laughter Club: Free group meets each Friday from 6-7 p.m. Families invited, no age restriction. The only condition for participation is the willingness to laugh for no reason. Information: info@laughteryoga.us or 626-755-5999. Yoga Kingdom Sanctuary, 553 S. Lake Ave., Pasadena.

Alhambra Public Library 10:30 a.m. Toddler Story Time, for ages 12 to 24 months. 410 W.Main Street, Alhambra.

Saturday

Eaton Canyon Nature Center Family nature walk held every Saturday morning, weather permitting, 9 to 11 a.m. Walking shoes, sunscreen, water, hats are recommended for this guided walk geared toward families with small children. Meet in front of the building. 626-398-5420. 1750 N. Altadena Dr., Pasadena.

The Huntington Library Nature activities are scheduled on Saturdays from 1:30 to 3:30 p.m. Kids of all ages can explore the world of nature at hands-on plant discovery carts located at the Lily Ponds, Desert Garden and Japanese Garden. Older kids can examine plant cross-sections under a microscope, learn how plants and animals use camouflage, compare soil and water samples, or look for local wildlife using a field guide. Younger children can make leaf rubbings, examine seed pods, create origami, or experience "a bug's life" through insect puppet play. On the first Saturday of each month, nature crafts are also offered near the entrance pavilion. No reservations required; free with museum admission. $15 adults, $12 seniors (65+), $10 students (ages 12-18 or with student I.D.), $6 for youth (ages 5-11), free for children under 5. Information: 626-405-2100. 1151 Oxford Road, San Marino.

Hurst Ranch: Living history ranch is open to the public on the second Saturday of each month from 9 a.m. to 1 p.m. Information: 626-813-0116. 1227 S. Orange Ave., West Covina.

Claremont University Stone Center for Children's Books: Saturday Storytimes are held from 10-11 a.m. each week. 740 N. College Ave., Claremont.

Los Angeles County Arboretum: Garden Sprouts program invites kids ages 5-8 to plant and tend a garden, play nature games and learn gardening crafts. This is a drop-off program held on the first Saturday of each month from October through June, 9-11 a.m. $30/quarter or $12 per Saturday. Family Adventures program is held on the first Saturday of the month, 2 p.m. under the big oak tree in front of Ayres Hall. All ages learn, make and take crafts, enjoy a nature walk. $20 per family. Iformation: 626-821-4623. 301 N. Baldwin Ave., Arcadia.

Alhambra Public Library 11 a.m. and 3 p.m., Saturdays. Story Time for children of all ages. Provided by volunteer story readers. 410 W.Main Street, Alhambra.

Other

Sierra Madre Public Library: Two Preschool story hours are held each week in the Children's Room. Mondays at 10 a.m., and Wednesdays at 7 p.m. Cathy Ryne, children's librarian, tells stories, sings songs, and organizes craft projects. 626-355-7186. 440 W. Sierra Madre Blvd., Sierra Madre.

MOMS Club of Pasadena-North Support group for stay-at-home moms meets regularly for all-member meetings, speakers, interest groups, playdates and much more. Serving Pasadena (north of 210 fwy) and Altadena. For more information please e-mail: membershipnorth@pasadenamomsclub.com .

Huntington Hospital: Perinatal Health Education department offers ongoing classes and support groups for new moms, including breastfeeding Thursdays 10 to 11:30 a.m.; Mommy & Me Tuesdays 9:30 to 11:30 a.m.; Postnatal Fitness Mondays, Wednesdays and Fridays, 5:45 to 6 p.m.; Baby & Me; infant care; and infant/child CPR. Some classes involve fees. Information and registration: 626-397-8768. .

Pasadena Central Library and its branches offer many storytimes each week, for infants through age 8. All programs are free, some require pre-registration. Check website for schedules. .

Glendora Public Library Story times for kids 3-5 are held Tuesdays and Wednesday, 10:30-11 a.m.; infants and toddlers Thursdays 10:30-10:45 a.m. PJ family story time at 7 p.m. each Wednesday offers a half hour of magical stories, songs and fingerplays. A great alternative to TV! Information: 626-852-4891. Children's Room, 140 S. Glendora Ave., Glendora.

South Pasadena Public Library: Family Storytime is offered Tuesdays, 7:30 p.m.; Pajama and Preschool storytimes for ages 3-5, Wednesdays 7 p.m. and Thursdays 10:30 a.m.; Toddler storytime for ages 1-2, Fridays 10:30 a.m.; ages 2-3, Fridays 11 a.m. Grandparents and Books Read-Alouds are scheduled for Thursday afternoons from 3–5 p.m. 1100 Oxley St., South Pasadena.

Pasadena Central Library Gentle, affectionate dogs from the Pasadena Humane Society love it when children read to them. At the Central Library and various branch libraries. See library calendar for details. 285 East Walnut Street, Pasadena.

San Marino Public Library: Weekly preschool story time for 3- to 5-year-olds offered on Thursdays at 11:30 a.m. and 1:30 p.m.; Tuesdays at 3:30 for 5- to 8-year-olds. Call 626-300-0777 to register. 1890 Huntington Dr., San Marino.

Mrs. Nelson's Storytimes: Pajama Storytime Fridays at 6 p.m. All ages welcome Saturdays at 11 a.m. Also, Saturday storytime is from 11 a.m. to noon. Register: 909-599-4558. 1030 Bonita Ave., La Verne.

Healthy Eating Lifestyle Program: Ongoing, five-session nutritional and exercise workshop is designed to help families with kids who are at risk for being overweight. Classes include smart shopping tips, family meal planning advice, creating simple recipes, games, parties and activities for kids aged 5 to 12 and their entire families. Sessions held on Saturdays from 10 a.m. to noon, and Monday and Tuesday nights from 6 to 8 p.m. Families must register and complete medical screening in order to attend. Contact health educator Kam Miller at 626-397-3660 or via email: healthy.eating@huntingtonhospital.com Huntington Hospital, 100 W. California Blvd., Pasadena.

The Bunny Museum: See the world's largest collection of bunnies and bunny artifacts, with more than 20,000 items on display. Private home is open for tours by appointment every day of the year. No appointment needed on most holidays. Call for schedule: 626-798-8848. 1933 Jefferson Dr., Pasadena.

MOMS Club of San Dimas: Support group meets regularly for play dates, park days, storytimes, coffees and field trips. Various locations; check online calendar for dates, times. .

Gymboree: Play, music and art classes offered on an ongoing basis. Free trial classes for new families. Information on classes: 626-445-1122; parties: 626-445-5161. 518 W. Huntington Dr., Monrovia.

MOMS Club of Pasadena Support group for stay-at-home moms meets regularly for all-member meetings, speakers, interest groups, playdates and much more. Serving Pasadena, South Pasadena, San Marino and Ahambra. For more information please e-mail: membershipvp@pasadenamomsclub.com .

Kidspace Children's Museum: Where else can kids dig, learn about fossils and the evolution of earthquakes, ride trikes and climb 40 feet into the air? Museum exhibits highlight the arts, sciences and humanities in a manner that promotes exploration, investigation and expression. Open 9:30 a.m. to 5 p.m. daily, closed Thanksgiving, Christmas, New Year's Day. Admission: $8 for adults and children; under 1 free. 480 N. Arroyo Blvd., Pasadena.

Take the Baby and Run: Bring your baby and your stroller for a great one-hour workout. Held Monday through Friday at 9:30 a.m. Information: 818-517-3082. Mention The Orange Cat and get your first class free. Lacy Park, San Marino.

Child Care Information Service: Referrals to licensed child care providers are available to all families, regardless of income. Referrals are random, based on geographic area, ages of the children and availability of child care spaces. Cities served are Altadena, Arcadia, Duarte, La Canada, Monrovia, Sierra Madre, South Pasadena, Pasadena and San Marino. .

Kids Island Parenting classes, infant play area, arts and crafts, music and dance studios, open play times and children's parties are offered at this indoor center for children six months to eight years. Call for information/admission prices: 626-447-8003. 1313 S. Baldwin Ave., Arcadia.

Pasadena Libraries Elementary age children can read a book to a gentle dog at various Pasadena library locations through the Barks and Books program. .

Pasadena City College: Registration continues year-round for Parent Education courses, which feature parent-child interaction, playtime, crafts, songs and parenting advice and information from seasoned instructors. Classes available for infants through per-Kindergarten and their parents or caregivers. Some multiple-child classes and special Dad's evening courses available. Information: 626-585-3038. Classes held at various San Gabriel Valley locations.

Amy's Playground Indoor playground features 3,000-square-foot play area with maze, bouncer, infant area and free weekly crafts. Must wear socks to enter. Monday through Friday, 10 a.m. to 6 p.m.; call for weekend availability. Adults free; kids two and older $8; siblings and kids under 2, $6. 1115 Mission St., South Pasadena.

Mrs. Nelson's Bookstore: Art classes with Gloria Aluzas provide an opportunity to complete a piece a child can be proud of! Call or visit the store for details. Ages 6-10: Mondays at 4 p.m. Kindergartners: Thursdays at 4 p.m. Information: 909-599-4558. 1030 Bonita Ave., La Verne.

Altadena Public Library: Reading club, weekly musical shows, kids' workshops and activities. Check Web site for times, dates. 600 E. Mariposa Ave., Altadena.

GymnastiKids: Gymnastics classes for all ages in a non-competitive, fun-filled environment; free trial classes. Also offering summer camp featuring safe, beginning gymnastics instruction through positive games and organized activities. Camp will run Monday through Friday, 9 a.m. to 12:30 p.m., with early dropoff available. Pre-registration accepted now: 626-796-5437. 2237 E. Colorado Blvd., Pasadena.

The Little Gym: Features non-competitive motor skill development sessions for fitness and fun. Information: 818-249-4496. 2196 Foothill Blvd., La Canada.

Are you aware of a great event or venue that we're not listing? If so, please let us know so we can include it in the next Orange Cat. Email: karen@theorangecat.org.

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