May 4, 2007

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By Karen E. Klein

Mother's Day is coming up, and of course it is one of my favorite holidays these days. Who doesn't like the pampering, the attention, the delicious meal that you don't have to cook, and the chance to soak up some rare offspring gratitude. Bring it on!

When my kids were tiny, however, my fondest wish for Mother's Day was often to spend the day not surrounded by my family, but on my own - doing something I wanted to do, all for myself. Selfish? Yeah, but what with being totally, explicitly unselfish 364 days a year, I figured one selfish day in the middle of May couldn't hurt.

One year, I went off to a store and shopped for hours, unhurried and unhampered by hungry toddlers, cranky babies or bored grade schoolers. On a couple of Mother's Days, I volunteered as a docent at the Mother's Day Old House Tour in Monrovia, dressed up in vintage clothing and feathered hats. What fun!

And yes, I did wind up at home eventually, giving the family a chance to treat me to a night out or a fancy meal. When my husband asked what I wanted, during the five years I had kids in diapers, I always had the same request: "Please don't let me change a single diaper all day." What a treat!

Getting away from it all, taking a break, even exiting the house without a diaper bag on my shoulder - all the things I wanted were a reflection of my need to escape the enormous stress of being a mom. Working at a busy office? Meeting a tight deadline? Sure, those things are stressful - for a few hours at a time. But mothering often means constant stress, day and night, week in and week out.

Salary.com released a survey this week showing that stay-home mothers routinely put in a whopping 91.2-hour work week, all without the benefit of sick days or vacation time, of course. The job of "mom" involves 10 job descriptions, ranging from psychologist to van driver to janitor. If they were compensated fairly for their various roles, mothers would make $138,645 annually, the organization says.

That would be a pretty fair compensation, considering the relentless nature of mothering and the amount of stress - and long-term consequences - involved in doing an excellent job. The difficulties of mothering are enormous. My worst year was the one when I had a newborn and a tantrum-throwing 2-year-old. I remember several times when my baby would start howling, my toddler would start screaming and I would join right in - wailing along with them - because the stress was too much for me to handle silently.

How do you avoid stress? I asked some parents online for their thoughts:

"One of the best ways I have found to cope with stress is to take a long, relaxing bath. Just a few minutes in the tub can really calm you down. Also candles ... light them in the evening all over the house, and it will soothe you. Yoga is another way to de-stress, or just sitting silently (and that doesn't mean while you are on the computer). Being completely silent for a few minutes can help you cope," one wrote.

Another wrote this: "We rely on talk therapy. My son and I both take full advantage of that. My daughter refuses to talk to any outsider, so I take what I've learned from our psychologists and offer it to her. Another method is making contact with friends. My daughter has frequent contact with her friends daily through school, sports and a church youth group. I have less time for that, but I do make a point of chatting with a friend at least once a week. A third is to 'become someone else.' My children and I are involved in local theater productions and independent film. The act of taking on the character of another person helps relieve the pressure of our lives."

Interesting ideas! I went through a year of therapy after my mother died, and it helped me immensely although I initially resisted the notion. Just having someone professional and sympathetic listen to you, with no agenda other than to help you sort through some issues, is a major de-stressor. There were many times when my therapist appointment was the highlight of my week.

Here's another suggestion that is one of my favorites as well: "We have four children, ages five to 20. We live in a relatively small house and there are times when collective stress levels get high. Our guaranteed stress-buster is the family walk. Whilst living in an urban area, we are lucky enough to live close to a country park where we can go and get some good exercise, chat about our problems and have a bit of fun. It works in all weather - even on the dampest of days. As the seasons change, so does the park and it is never really the same walk. Old-fashioned? Yes. Free? Yes! Ideal as a stress-buster for all."

I started taking daily walks about a year ago, and boy is that true! I usually go by myself and I don't even have a park nearby - I just tramp around my neighborhood, usually with my iPod tuned to some music or a downloaded episode of This American Life or Science Friday. I don't have an agenda, a route or a time frame: I enjoy just wandering and heading home whenever I like. I do the same, usually on weekend mornings, on my bike.

"I find time to do the things that I enjoy," another parent wrote. "This can be playing cards, reading or even zoning out in front of the TV so that I do not have to think." This is a particularly good one for us moms (yes, it's usually moms!) who routinely sacrifice for our kids and feel guilty indulging in even the slightest bit of occasional enjoyment. I can remember when I started getting regular manicures and pedicures, and how self-indulgent that felt to me. But boy, was it great to have that hour of pampering once a month or so. Once you decide to give yourself that tender loving care on a regular basis, as you have time and money to do so, the stress levels really do drop.

Stress isn't just a problem for us moms and dads, of course. Our children face a lot of stress these days, too. Fitting in socially, performing scholastically and athletically, living up to their parents' expectations: It's easier now to survive childhood physically (thanks to medical care and disease control), but it's tougher than ever emotionally.

What can we do to help our kids reduce stress? Don't over-schedule them with too many activities. Let them get involved in one - or maybe two - things outside of school that they really, really love, and then limit additional extra-curricular things. You can always let them try something new during the summer, when they don't have long school hours and lots of homework.

With younger children, setting a fairly strict routine really helps de-stress. "I have found that with small children, providing them as much consistency as possible, being available to listen and interact with them, as well as spending time playing with them can alleviate or even head off stress before it occurs," one parent I asked wrote.

While I didn't enforce an extremely rigid schedule with my kids, we did have regular routines, especially around dinner, bathtime, storytime and bedtime. That predictability helped my high-energy, high-strung boys cope with what was always a difficult time of day. I knew some families where the children didn't have any consistent routines, and while it seemed to work fine for them, it would have been disastrous for my kids. Knowing what was happening, and when, was very calming for my exhausted guys at the end of a long day.

Speaking of long days, I hope your Mother's Day will stretch out with wonderful rest, a relaxing indulgence for your mind and body and a joyful reunion with your loved ones. Let them pamper you, spoil you, feed you - and most of all, let hubby (or grandpa, uncle, nephew, brother, etc) do those diapers! Karen@theorangecat.org.

Dates and times subject to change; activities free unless noted; phone numbers provided if reservations are requested; please note age ranges on some activities. Also, see our special printable calendar, especially for readers of The Orange Cat.

Friday, May 4, 2007

Costume Party: Sierra Madre Public Library 4:30 p.m. Sierra Madre's Centennial One Book, One City 2007 program hosts an opening event to celebrate "The Wonderful Wizard of Oz," by L. Frank Baum. Light refreshments provided; raffle prizes for those in costumes. Memorial Park Bandshell, Sierra Madre.

Author Event: Mrs. Nelson's Bookstore 3:30 p.m. Patrick Carman will be present the first book of his new trilogy, "Atherton." 1030 Bonita Ave., La Verne.

Saturday, May 5, 2007

Claremont Folk Festival: The Folk Music Center 9 a.m. to 5 p.m. Bring the family for live folk music, musical workshops, a craft fair and international cuisine. Information: 909-624-1232. Sycamore Elementary School, Claremont..

Children's Day: Huntington Library 1 p.m. Preschool students in colorful kimonos will sing songs from Japan in celebration of Children's Day. Origami crafts and storytelling will round out this event, suitable for young children. 1151 Oxford Road, San Marino.

Soccer Registration: AYSO Region 13 9 a.m. to 1 p.m. Region 13 provides recreational soccer to 3,500 children in the Pasadena/Altadena/La Canada area during a regular season that runs for 11 weeks from the beginning of September to mid-November. Ages 4.5 to 18; separate divisions for boys and girls. Five AYSO principles are: Everybody plays, balanced teams, open registration, positive coaching and good sportsmanship. Registration also held May 19. $100. Information: 626-737-3519 x705. 711 W. Woodbury Road, Unit E, Altadena.

Spicy Stories: Pasadena Central Library 10 a.m. - 10:30 a.m. A special Cinco de Mayo storytime with a Latin flavor (for ages 3-5). In the Children's Room. 285 East Walnut Street, Pasadena.

Cinco de Mayo: Kidspace Museum Journey through the arts, music, and culture of Mexico. The One Wee World Ambassadors will offer workshops at 11 a.m. and 2:30 p.m. Children can dance, join a mariachi band, and make a piñata. Fifty free workshop tickets will be available at the Ticket Booth beginning the morning of May 5. From 1-2 p.m. Aztec and folklorico dancers will perform in Stone Hollow Amphitheater. Also, make Mexican hot chocolate and enjoy Mexican-themed art. Brookside Park, 480 N. Arroyo Blvd., Pasadena.

Shakers: Lakeshore Learning Store 11 a.m. - 3 p.m. Kids will shake up a fun fiesta with Cinco de Mayo shaker instruments they make themselves. 3848 E. Foothill Blvd., Pasadena.

Author Event: Vromans Bookstore 11:30 a.m. The celebrated illustrator of Fancy Nancy, which spent 52 weeks on the New York Times bestseller's list, has brought Nancy back for even more entertaining and hilarious adventures. 695 E. Colorado Blvd., Pasadena.

Sunday, May 6, 2007

Storytime: Norton Simon Museum 2 p.m. Explore the world of children's books with noted authors and illustrators through interactive readings, lively presentations and creative workshop activities in this program for children 4-10. 411 W. Colorado Blvd., Pasadena.

Monday, May 7, 2007

May Flowers: Monrovia Public Library 7 p.m. PajamaMania is a Monday evening bedtime storytime. Children can wear their pajamas, bring a pillow, and invite a stuffed or furry friend along for the storytime ride. Information: 626-256-8254. 321 S. Myrtle Ave., Monrovia.

Wednesday, May 9, 2007

Safety Seat Checkup: SafetyBeltSafe U.S.A. 10 a.m. to 2 p.m. Is your child safe in the car? More than 90 percent of carseats inspected at checkups are being used incorrectly. And most children under eight to 10 need a booster seat. Bring your carseat in for a checkup at the underground parking area of Target. Information and appointments: 310-222-6860. Target store, 3121 E. Colorado Blvd., Pasadena.

Thursday, May 10, 2007

Peter McCarty: Mrs. Nelson's Bookstore 3 p.m. - 4 p.m. Peter McCarty won the Caldecott Honor for his book, "Hondo and Fabian" and is now visiting with his new book, "Fabian Escapes." This will be followed by a book signing. Books suitable for ages 3 and up. 1030 Bonita Ave., La Verne.

Friday, May 11, 2007

Jazz Concert: Caltech Ramo Auditorium 8 p.m. The Caltech Jazz Bands and the Caltech-Occidental Concert Band present Star Life, a new work by band member Les Deutsch, a Caltech alumnus and Chief Technologist and Strategic Planner for JPL's Interplanetary Network Directorate. Performance will feature narration and images from JPL/Caltech's Spitzer Space Telescope. Additional music by Percy Grainger, Rolf Rudin and Frank Ticheli. Reception follows performance. Information: 626-395-4652. Also Saturday, May 12. 320 S. Michigan Ave., Pasadena.

Saturday, May 12, 2007

Carnival: Sierra Madre Community Nursery School 10 a.m. Music, games, food, prizes and fun activities for the whole family. Information: 626-355-1655. Sierra Vista Park, 701 E. Sierra Madre Blvd.

Michel Lauziere: CalTech 2 p.m. Visual humorist, fantasy artist, acrobat, inventor, and musician, Lauziere is known as the "Master of the Unusual." Tickets $15 adults; $10 youth. Beckman Auditorium, 332 S. Michigan Ave, Pasadena..

Kiddle Karoo Puppet Show: Kidspace Museum 11 a.m. A blend of original music, dancing, and magic wherein puppets and friends take the audience on an imaginary adventure to the world of Kalakazoo, where stories unfold before your eyes. Brookside Park, 480 N. Arroyo Blvd., Pasadena.

Bouquet: Lakeshore Learning Store 11 a.m. - 3 p.m. Share the love with a colorful "Thumbody Loves You Bouquet" that's blooming with fun. 3848 E. Foothill Blvd., Pasadena.

Sunday, May 13, 2007

Mother's Day: Kidspace Museum 10 a.m. - 2 p.m. Celebrate Mom by making a special garden gift for her, and bring her to our spring garden party. Dress in fancy clothes, or costumes, if you like. Bring a blanket and enjoy picnicking in our newly restored gardens. Special brunch baskets for moms, dads, and kids are available by pre-order only. Brookside Park, 480 N. Arroyo Blvd., Pasadena.

Monday, May 14, 2007

Bike Week Pasadena: C.I.C.L.E. 11 a.m. Kick off Bike Week Pasadena, a grassroots initiative organized in cooperation with the city of Pasadena. Weeklong salute to the bicycle and its many uses includes more than 15 free events, including Mayor's Bike to Work Brigade; themed bike tours; bicycle-related films and documentaries; and an urban bicycle commuter expo. Information: 323-478-0060. One Colorado, Pasadena.

Intro to Kindergarten: Pasadena Central Library 7 p.m. - 9 p.m. Join other families beginning kindergarten in Pasadena public schools next year to hear from kindergarten veterans as they share their stories, advice, and excitement. Sponsored by Pasadena Education Network. 285 East Walnut Street, Pasadena.

Thursday, May 17, 2007

Support Group: Mothers and More Pasadena 7:30 p.m. Panel discussion entitled, "Schools, Schools: Public or Private?" Come hear about the merits of public and private schools in the Pasadena area from parents whose children are currently enrolled in one or the other. We also hope to have a guest speaker who is an expert on educational issues in Pasadena. Guests welcome to attend up to two meetings or other members-only activities prior to becoming a member; adults only. Wild Oats Natural Marketplace, upstairs conference room, 603 South Lake Ave., Pasadena.

Saturday, May 19, 2007

Family Day: Norton Simon Museum 1 p.m. Explore the variety of grasses, flowers, plants and trees in the sculpture garden, then design your own special green space complete with a bronze paper sculpture. 411 W. Colorado Blvd., Pasadena.

Book Sale: Altadena Public Library 10 a.m. Friends of the Altadena library are having a book sale to raise funds for the children's non-fiction section. 600 E. Mariposa Ave., Altadena.

Flea Market: Kidspace Museum 10 a.m. - 4 p.m. Children can shop, sell, or barter for treasures and talents at the Flea Market. Sell your gently used toys, homemade treasures, or share a talent such as face painting, or a puppet show. Register early (see website for details) to participate as a vendor. Recommended for children ages 4-12. Brookside Park, 480 N. Arroyo Blvd., Pasadena.

Self-Portrait: Lakeshore Learning Store 11 a.m. - 3 p.m. Children create self-portraits that are sure to become a keepsake. 3848 E. Foothill Blvd., Pasadena.

Henry Winkler: Mrs. Nelson's Bookstore 12 p.m. Author (also actor) Henry Winkler will be visiting Mrs. Nelson's Bookstore. His Hank Zipzer books for children follow the exploits of young Hank, who's learning differences make him a mirror image of Mr. Winkler's boyhood. 1030 Bonita Ave., La Verne.

Open House: Jet Propulsion Laboratory 9 a.m. to 5 p.m. Celebrate JPL's accomplishments with exhibits and demonstrations about the lab's ongoing research and space exploration. Many of the lab's scientists and engineers will be on hand to answer questions about how spacecraft are sent to other planets, how scientists and engineers explore earth, and how researchers are now searching for planets beyond our known solar system. Visitors will see exhibits, displays, demonstrations and presentations about new technologies, solar system exploration, spacecraft communication and hands-on activities designed for kids. Food and beverages will be available, along with space souvenirs and NASA and JPL merchandise. No backpacks or ice chests are allowed, with the exception of small purses and diaper bags. Information: 818-354-0112. Also May 20, 9 a.m. to 5 p.m. 4800 Oak Grove Dr., Pasadena.

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Monday, May 7, 2007

Tiny Twinkles: Kids Funtown 10 a.m. Free demo class features Suzuki Music & Movement program for ages 0-4 and a parent or caregiver. Play kid-friendly instruments, sing, dance, listen to classical masterpieces, chant, count, and read together. Participants in the demo class are invited to stay and play for the day. Reservations: 818-249-0888. 2100 Verdugo Blvd, Montrose.

Tuesday, May 8, 2007

Signing Workshop: FasTracKids 6 p.m. Workshop teaches starter signs, see and do signs, highly motivating signs and strategies that are used to engage infants to begin signing. Parent-child play groups are also offered. Two-session workshop is held from 6 to 7:30 p.m. on May 8 and 10. $75. Information and reservations: 626-254-8500. 1010 S. Baldwin Ave., Arcadia.

Saturday, May 12, 2007

Mother's Day Brunches: Descanso Gardens 9 a.m. Special Mother's Day brunches Saturday, May 12, and Sunday, May 13, give families a chance to surround their favorite women with thousands of flowers. $42 adults; $15 children 4 to 10; free children 3 and younger. Reservations required by Monday, May 8: 818-790-3663. 1418 Descanso Dr, La Canada Flintridge.

Pumpkin Growing: Huntington Library 11 a.m. Ever wonder how a giant pumpkin gets so big? Learn what it takes to grow one at home in this presentation by master gardener Stuart Shim of the U.C. Cooperative Extension. Ages 5 and up, with one adult. Adult $15; child $10. Registration: 626-405-2128. 1151 Oxford Road, San Marino.

Family Adventures: L.A. County Arboretum 2-4 p.m. Mother's Day program offers a hike to our herb garden, followed by learning to use plants there to make tea. $20 per family. Registration: 626-821-4623. 301 N. Baldwin Ave., Arcadia.

Sunday, May 13, 2007

Mother's Day Brunch: Rancho Santa Ana Botanic Gardens 11 a.m. to 2 p.m. Dine on fresh fruit and pastries, create an omelette-to-order, feast on roasted turkey and greens, and sip delicious drinks, surrounded by spring blossoms and live music. $40 adults; $32 children under 12. Reservations required by Wednesday, May 9 at 909-625-8767, ext. 251. 1500 N. College Ave., Claremont.

Thursday, May 17, 2007

Peter Pan: Azusa Pacific University 7 p.m. This tale of a boy who refuses to grow up begins when the magical Peter loses his shadow in the home of the Darling family and befriends the family's children, teaching them how to fly off to his dwelling place in Neverland. Tickets: $10 adults, $8 children 3-17. Performances May 17-26, check website for dates and times. APU Theater, 901 E. Alosta Ave., Azusa.

Friday, May 18, 2007

Chorus Auditions: Pasadena Presbyterian Church Los Angeles Children's Chorus, considered one of the nation's leading children's choirs, is holding auditions for boys and girls ages 8-12 from May 18 through 21, 2007. Previous singing experience and preparation are not necessary; children audition in groups of five. The program trains children who may not have previous singing experience, but who are dedicated to achieving excellence in vocal technique, choral singing and classical music. Successful candidates will demonstrate the ability to match tone, follow instructions, and thrive in a supportive, but structured learning environment. Appointments: call Allison Jolley at 626-793-4231. 585 E. Colorado Blvd., Pasadena.

Thursday, May 24, 2007

Twilight Stories in the Garden: Pasadena Museum of History 6 p.m. Children ages 4-8 are invited to wear their own fairy garb and come to our third annual Fairy Party. Admission (per child with accompanying adult): $12. Reservations: 626-577-1660, ext. 10. 470 W. Walnut St., Pasadena. 470 W. Walnut St., Pasadena.

Friday, May 25, 2007

Nightwalk: Descanso Gardens 7:15 p.m. Walk with docent Jim Jackson into the nightlife enjoyed by Descanso's nocturnal animals and insects. Jackson will also share the Gardens' history. Participants must be at least 12 years old and should wear sensible shoes and bring a jacket and flashlight. $15. Registration: 818-949-7980. 1418 Descanso Dr, La Canada Flintridge.

Continuing Activities

Sunday

Rock Rose Art Gallery: Family drum circle is held 12:30–1:30 p.m. Donations requested. 4108 N. Figueroa St., Highland Park.

L.A. County Arboretum: Arboretum Bookworms, for ages 3-8, meets on the third Sunday of every month from 2-3 p.m. Children explore the arboretum and its library, enjoy plant and nature tales and make and take crafts. Meet at the main entrance. Free with admission of $7 adults; $2.50 children 5-12; free children 4 and under. Information: 626-821-4623. 301 N. Baldwin Ave., Arcadia.

Hill Avenue Branch Library: 10 a.m. - 11:30 a.m. This Spanish playgroup meets every Sunday and provides Spanish literacy for Spanish-speaking children. 55 S. Hill Ave., Pasadena.

Monday

Allendale Branch Library: Family videos, suitable for school-age children, are shown on Mondays from 2 to 3:30 p.m. 1130 S. Marengo Ave., Pasadena.

Pacific Theatres: Moms, dads and caregivers, here's your chance to see a first run adult-themed movie...with your baby! No one will mind if your baby cries, everyone will have a baby and all babies cry. 11 a.m., film title changes weekly. Paseo Colorado, Pasadena.

Tuesday

Terrific Twosomes Mothers of Multiples: San Gabriel Valley-based, non-profit support organization exists as a forum for parents of twins, triplets, quadruplets and higher multipes to come together to exchange everything from advice to outgrown baby clothing! We meet on the second Tuesday evening of each month; see website for details on meeting place and time. .

Sierra Madre Moms Club Support group for mothers and their kids meets every fourth Tuesday from 12-1:30 p.m., all welcome. The group also sponsors play groups, family parties and park dates. Serves residents of Sierra Madre and Temple City. We also are currently enrolling residents of Arcadia with the understanding that they will form their own chapter in June 2007. Information: email momsclubofsierramadre@yahoo.com. Sierra Madre Community Center, 611 E. Sierra Madre Blvd., Sierra Madre.

Monrovia Public Library Best Books is a weekly program for elementary-aged youth, held Tuesdays in November from 3:30-4:30 p.m. Students will take a magical journey through an exciting book, with a librarian reading a chapter or two aloud, then offering a snack, followed by a bit more reading. Youth are invited to bring copies of their own books to read along. 321 S. Myrtle Ave., Monrovia.

Altadena MOMS Club: Support group for stay-at-home moms meets the third Tuesday of each month from 10 a.m. to noon. Our chapter offers play groups, a hiking group, a book group, monthly meetings and a great network of moms that live in Altadena. Please contact Talin Dikranian at 626-844-7916 or membership@altadenamomsclub.com for more information. Farnsworth Park Community Center, Altadena.

Wednesday

Vroman's Book Store: 10 a.m. Wednesdays and Saturdays. Storytime with Mr. Steve features contemporary and classic tales read aloud. Ages 2 to 8. 695 E. Colorado Blvd., Pasadena.

Alhambra Public Library Preschool Story Time 10:30 a.m. Wednesdays. Featuring stories, finger plays, songs and puppets. For kids, ages 3 to 5. Then, at 7 p.m., Family Story Time, for ages 3 to 10. Stories, finger plays, songs, films and crafts. 410 W.Main Street, Alhambra.

San Dimas Farmers Market Come and experience a night full of live music and dancing every Wednesday, beginning at 4:30 p.m. 245 E. Bonita Ave. Civic Center Park.

Thursday

Villa Parke Community Center Library 4:30 p.m. Family films, rated G and PG, are shown on Thursdays. 363 E. Villa Street, Pasadena.

Mothers and More Pasadena: Support group meets regularly for moms-only coffees and lunches focused on career planning, transitions to paid work and challenges or opportunities with current employment. Chapter meetings occur first and third Thursdays of the month at 7:30 p.m. and are open to visitors. Group also sponsors Moms' Nights Out, book club and playgroups. Information: mothersandmore@onebox.com, or 866-206-9068, x3921. Wild Oats Natural Marketplace, conference room, 603 S. Lake Ave. Pasadena.

Mocha Moms: The Pasadena Chapter of Mocha Moms is a nonprofit organization for mothers of color in the San Gabriel Valley. We meet weekly for playgroups, bi-weekly for "moms only" events and other planned activities. Chapter meetings are open to newcomers on the first Thursday of every month at 7:30 p.m. For more information and location, visit website or email: pasadenamocha@yahoo.com .

Friday

Monrovia Winter Market: 5-8 p.m. Street fair and certified farmer's market, with craft booths, kiddie rides, live music, food and family fun. Myrtle and Olive avenues, Monrovia.

Villa Parke Community Center Library 4:30 p.m. - 5:30 p.m. Fridays. Board Games are placed out on tables for everyone to play with. For all ages. 363 E. Villa Street, Pasadena.

Fibromyalgia Support Group: A free support-and-information group for fibromyalgia sufferers and their families meets every third Friday of the month, 5-6:30 p.m. Reservations required. The group facilitator, Charles Yarborough, is a licensed acupuncturist specializing in pain syndromes. Information: 626-319-8725. 1028 N. Lake Ave. Suite 108 Pasadena.

Pasadena Central Library 10 a.m. - 10:30 a.m. Preschool films. A 30-minute program with picture book stories on the big screen for ages 3-5. Weekly on Friday. 285 East Walnut Street, Pasadena.

Pasadena Laughter Club: Free group meets each Friday from 6-7 p.m. Families invited, no age restriction. The only condition for participation is the willingness to laugh for no reason. Information: info@laughteryoga.us or 626-755-5999. Yoga Kingdom Sanctuary, 553 S. Lake Ave., Pasadena.

Alhambra Public Library 10:30 a.m. Toddler Story Time, for ages 12 to 24 months. 410 W.Main Street, Alhambra.

Saturday

Eaton Canyon Nature Center Family nature walk held every Saturday morning, weather permitting, 9 to 11 a.m. Walking shoes, sunscreen, water, hats are recommended for this guided walk geared toward families with small children. Meet in front of the building. 626-398-5420. 1750 N. Altadena Dr., Pasadena.

The Huntington Library Nature activities are scheduled on Saturdays from 1:30 to 3:30 p.m. Kids of all ages can explore the world of nature at hands-on plant discovery carts located at the Lily Ponds, Desert Garden and Japanese Garden. Older kids can examine plant cross-sections under a microscope, learn how plants and animals use camouflage, compare soil and water samples, or look for local wildlife using a field guide. Younger children can make leaf rubbings, examine seed pods, create origami, or experience "a bug's life" through insect puppet play. On the first Saturday of each month, nature crafts are also offered near the entrance pavilion. No reservations required; free with museum admission. $15 adults, $12 seniors (65+), $10 students (ages 12-18 or with student I.D.), $6 for youth (ages 5-11), free for children under 5. Information: 626-405-2100. 1151 Oxford Road, San Marino.

Rock Rose Art Gallery: MOTHEREAD/FATHEREAD, L.A. is held from 10-11:30 a.m. This is a 10-week family reading program based on a simple idea: When families read together, remarkable things happen. Family ties are strengthened. Parents become reading role models for their children. Children become better readers and better learners. Information: Rosamaria Marquez, 323-222-4740. 4108 N. Figueroa St., Highland Park.

Alhambra Public Library 11 a.m. and 3 p.m., Saturdays. Story Time for children of all ages. Provided by volunteer story readers. 410 W.Main Street, Alhambra.

Stone Center for Children's Books Stories and crafts are open for kids of all ages most Saturdays from 10 to 11 a.m. Information: 909-607-3670. Claremont Graduate University, 740 N. College Ave., Claremont.

Other

MOMS Club of Pasadena-North Support group for stay-at-home moms meets regularly for all-member meetings, speakers, interest groups, playdates and much more. Serving Pasadena north of the 210 Freeway. For more information please e-mail: membershipnorth@pasadenamomsclub.com .

South Pasadena Strings: Afterschool music, art and foreign language classes for preschoolers and kindergartners. For all ages, group and private lesson in violin, viola, cello, guitar, piano, voice. Award-winning youth orchestras. For more information, email stringsprogram@aol.com, or call 626/403-4611. South Pasadena.

Huntington Hospital: Perinatal Health Education department offers ongoing classes and support groups for new moms, including breastfeeding Thursdays 10 to 11:30 a.m.; Mommy & Me Tuesdays 9:30 to 11:30 a.m.; Postnatal Fitness Mondays, Wednesdays and Fridays, 5:45 to 6 p.m.; Baby & Me; infant care; and infant/child CPR. Some classes involve fees. Information and registration: 626-397-8768. .

MamaMia Fitness Variety of yoga and fitness classes are held outdoors for all fitness levels. Babies of all ages attend class and are incorporated into the workout. We also organize play dates, "Mommy's Morning Out" and field trips. Rose Bowl, Brookside Park, 360 N. Arroyo Blvd., Pasadena.

Pasadena Central Library and its branches offer many storytimes each week, for infants through age 8. All programs are free, some require pre-registration. Check website for schedules. .

Glendora Public Library Story times for kids 3-5 are held Tuesdays and Wednesday, 10:30-11 a.m.; infants and toddlers Thursdays 10:30-10:45 a.m. PJ family story time at 7 p.m. each Wednesday offers a half hour of magical stories, songs and fingerplays. A great alternative to TV! Information: 626-852-4891. Children's Room, 140 S. Glendora Ave., Glendora.

Pasadena Central Library Gentle, affectionate dogs from the Pasadena Humane Society love it when children read to them. At the Central Library and various branch libraries. See library calendar for details. 285 East Walnut Street, Pasadena.

San Marino Public Library: Weekly preschool story time for 3- to 5-year-olds offered on Thursdays at 12:30 p.m.; 2-year-olds Mondays at 10 a.m. Children of all ages are invited to practice their reading with the Barks and Books program on the third Saturday of each month from 11:30 a.m. to 12:30 p.m. Information and registration: 626-300-0777. 1800 Huntington Dr., San Marino.

Mrs. Nelson's Storytimes: Pajama Storytime Fridays at 6-7 p.m. Also, Saturday storytime is from 11 a.m. to noon. Preschool Storytime and crafts is Tuesday 10-11 a.m. Register: 909-599-4558. 1030 Bonita Ave., La Verne.

Healthy Eating Lifestyle Program: Ongoing, five-session nutritional and exercise workshop is designed to help families with kids who are at risk for being overweight. Classes include smart shopping tips, family meal planning advice, creating simple recipes, games, parties and activities for kids aged 5 to 12 and their entire families. Sessions held on Saturdays from 10 a.m. to noon, and Monday and Tuesday nights from 6 to 8 p.m. Families must register and complete medical screening in order to attend. Contact health educator Kam Miller at 626-397-3660 or via email: healthy.eating@huntingtonhospital.com Huntington Hospital, 100 W. California Blvd., Pasadena.

The Bunny Museum: See the world's largest collection of bunnies and bunny artifacts, with more than 20,000 items on display. Private home is open for tours by appointment every day of the year. No appointment needed on most holidays. Call for schedule: 626-798-8848. 1933 Jefferson Dr., Pasadena.

MOMS Club of San Dimas: Support group meets regularly for play dates, park days, storytimes, coffees and field trips. Various locations; check online calendar for dates, times. .

Gymboree: Play, music and art classes offered on an ongoing basis. Free trial classes for new families. Information on classes: 626-445-1122; parties: 626-445-5161. 518 W. Huntington Dr., Monrovia.

MOMS Club of Pasadena Support group for stay-at-home moms meets regularly for all-member meetings, speakers, interest groups, playdates and much more. Serving Pasadena, South Pasadena, San Marino and Ahambra. For more information please e-mail: membershipvp@momsclubpasadena.com .

Kidspace Children's Museum: Where else can kids dig, learn about fossils and the evolution of earthquakes, ride trikes and climb 40 feet into the air? Museum exhibits highlight the arts, sciences and humanities in a manner that promotes exploration, investigation and expression. Open 9:30 a.m. to 5 p.m. daily, closed Thanksgiving, Christmas, New Year's Day. Admission: $8 for adults and children; under 1 free. 480 N. Arroyo Blvd., Pasadena.

Child Care Information Service: Referrals to licensed child care providers are available to all families, regardless of income. Referrals are random, based on geographic area, ages of the children and availability of child care spaces. Cities served are Altadena, Arcadia, Duarte, La Canada, Monrovia, Sierra Madre, South Pasadena, Pasadena and San Marino. .

Kids Island Parenting classes, parent's night out program, infant play area, arts and crafts, music and dance studios, open play times and children's parties are offered at this indoor center for children six months to eight years. Call for information/admission prices: 626-447-8003. 1313 S. Baldwin Ave., Arcadia.

MOMS Club of the Foothills: Support group for stay-at-home moms meets regularly for all-member meetings, speakers, interest groups, playgroups, and much more. Serving La Canada, La Crescenta, Montrose, Sparr Heights, Tujunga, Sunland and Kagel Canyon. Information: email foothillmommembership@hotmail.com or call 818-306-3655. .

Pasadena City College: Registration continues year-round for Parent Education courses, which feature parent-child interaction, playtime, crafts, songs and parenting advice and information from seasoned instructors. Classes available for infants through per-Kindergarten and their parents or caregivers. Some multiple-child classes and special Dad's evening courses available. Information: 626-585-3038. Classes held at various San Gabriel Valley locations.

Amy's Playground Indoor playground features 3,000-square-foot play area with maze, bouncer, infant area and free weekly crafts. Must wear socks to enter. Monday through Friday, 10 a.m. to 6 p.m.; call for weekend availability. Adults free; kids two and older $8; siblings and kids under 2, $6. 1115 Mission St., South Pasadena.

Mrs. Nelson's Bookstore: Art classes with Gloria Aluzas provide an opportunity to complete a piece a child can be proud of! Call or visit the store for details. Ages 6-10: Mondays at 4 p.m. Kindergartners: Thursdays at 4 p.m. Information: 909-599-4558. 1030 Bonita Ave., La Verne.

Altadena Public Library: Reading club, weekly musical shows, kids' workshops and activities. Check Web site for times, dates. 600 E. Mariposa Ave., Altadena.

The Little Gym: Features non-competitive motor skill development sessions for fitness and fun. New location now open in Monrovia, at 925 W. Foothill Blvd, one block east of Fifth Street. Information: 626-301-0100. La Canada location information: 818-249-4496. 2196 Foothill Blvd., La Canada.

Allendale Branch Library 3 p.m. - 5 p.m. Board game mania is held monthly, featuring games of all kinds, like Monopoly, Checkers, Chess, Cranium, Risk, Scrabble and more. 1130 S. Marengo Ave., Pasadena.

Arcadia Public Library: Storytimes for various age groups are offered throughout the week. Book Buddy program, where teen volunteers read to young children, and Barks and Books programs also offered. Pre-registration required; see librarian for details. 20 W. Duarte Rd., Arcadia.

MOMS Club of Monrovia Support group for stay-at-home moms meets regularly for park days, stroller walks, and all-member meetings. Serving Monrovia, Duarte, and Bradbury. For more information please e-mail: momsclubofmonrovia@yahoo.com.

Are you aware of a great event or venue that we're not listing? If so, please let us know so we can include it in the next Orange Cat. Email: karen@theorangecat.org.

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